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	I am intelligent, a non-smoker in good health, mild to moderately sadistic, well groomed, strong, patient, and disciplined. I am looking for those same traits in a partner. I am interested in finding one woman who is looking for some fun in her life. To be clear, I'm in a vanilla marriage and staying for the kids. So, if there really are submissive women who are interested in a discreet relationship with a dominant man - I'd love to hear from you...yes you. The one who is looking for someone kind but firm, who knows that their Dom's needs can only truly be met when their own needs are met, and who knows who they are and where they want to go. The one who feels that a BDSM relationship should be fun and freeing. The one who understands that "this" needs to be more than just a physical connection.. You're the one I want to meet.

6/8/2010 1:03:45 PM

So why am I here? Intimate activity in my vanilla marriage has gone from "little" to "none". My wife's menopause and medications are the reason, but the results are the same for me regardless.

I am a great dad and other than the lack of "naked time" things at home are manageable, so I'm not planning to leave for now. However, "naked time" is important to me and in light of my wife's refusal to discuss the subject, I've decided to discreetly wander from the reservation to try get at least some of what I'm missing... and if I'm going to wander, I'm going to fulfill some long term desires as well.

Ideally I'm looking for a submissive woman in a similar boat who isn't getting her needs met at home. I will take you places...but only if the chemistry is right. I need to know you, your desires, and your needs - you need to know me and mine... This is a journey for me...not a race.