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Ok, I have to say something, I have seen one to many profiles who list them selfs as Native American, and by their picture they are clearly not, so let me do what the school system has failed may of you on.

Native Americans are the indigenous peoples in North America within the boundaries of the present-day continental United States, Alaska, and the island state of Hawaii. They are composed of numerous, distinct Native American tribes and ethnic groups, many of which survive as intact political communities. The terms used to refer to Native Americans have been controversial. According to a 1995 U.S. Census Bureau set of home interviews, most of the respondents with an expressed preference refer to themselves as American Indians (or simply Indians – see Native American name controversy), and this term has been adopted by major newspapers and some academic groups; however, this term does not typically include Native Hawaiians or certain Alaskan Natives, such as Aleut, Yup'ik, or Inuit peoples.

Check it out

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Native_Americans_in_the_United_States

When you say things that you know nothing about it makes you look stupid, some friendly advise.

A true slave seeks not sexual pleasure, but pleasure from service given unconditional to the owners.

The Burden of Proof

It seems that the fakes are still ever present here on collarme. It is for this reason that we have instituted The Burden of Proof. What this means is that for those who seek us out and contact us we will require three proofs of who you are and that you are serious about your intentions in becoming Owned and collared by us. These are not negotiable.

1. You must have more then one picture to show us and have the ability to take a few pictures of what we request to send us.

2. If we progress to off sight communication then you will need a Web Cam, in this day and age, those who are serious will have web cam, the inexpensive ones are as low as 29.99.

3. You must be able to call us within the same hour and on the same day we give you a code word, and present your call back number to us before any offer of consideration is made. The number we give you to call is of a spare cell we use, so giving it to others as yours will only send them to a voice mail telling them of your fakery

4. If you are accepted as our slave then all relocation is your responsibility.

Well the question was once again posed to us during a preliminary interview with a perspective salve. "What would my duties be?" Now the question in and of its self is a harmless one, and a legitimate one at that. We are not unaware that this lifestyle encompass so many different fractions that a potential slave would of course be interested, cautious and should be concerned about the type of environment that they would be going into. We have also noticed that this question seems to come more from perspective slaves that have a very limited exposure to the lifestyle. The general feeling that we get is that for to many believe that submission to a slavery lifestyle is comprised manly of sexual service and submission to their dominants kinky use of their body for erotic pleasure. Yes we know that there is a fraction of this lifestyle that for them and those that seek them, sexual slavery is their desire and need in life and nothing more. But for us this is not the only aspect of slavery we seek from those that seek to serve us.

In our profile we state that we seek those that wish to live in Old Southern style slavery. Now we are not talking about forced slavery, the type that caused this country to be at war with it?s self for four years and coast many their lives to preserve the union and freedoms that all American enjoys today. Our interpretation of the style of slavery is one that takes it roots from the old south style, yet is grounded in today freedoms of rights. We do not and will not force anyone into this type of life. The perspective slave has the right to enter into a consensual bondage of their self to another. So it makes us wonder with us listing this type of slavery and then going on to list what type of duties we expect from those that seek to serve us, why we still get this question asked. It is hard for us to comprehend that a large majority who seek to get into this lifestyle as a permeant way of life would believe that we all live in a Gorean state where bondage forced enslavement is carried out 24/7. Are where the slave would be living the "Story of O? and be kept and trained as a sexual slave 24/7. Evan O had to return to the vanilla would once she left Roissy. It is hard to believe that all believe that this lifestyle is comprised so many aficionados that think of the lifestyle imagined that being trained to be a slave is a journey through a magical erotic kingdom. They envision an endless stream of sexual stimulation ranging from the most common sexual encounters to prolonged sessions of agonizing torture. With all the participants suitable costumed, of course.

It is disillusioning for these people to realize that Masters and Mistresses do not often feel compelled to conduct their affairs in gleaming black leather or latex, complete with jackboots or stiletto heels. If truths are told, sexual activities within the Master/Mistress slave relationship are only about 10% of the salve?s duties. In a 24/7 live in Master/Mistress slave household there are the everyday events in life that must be done. Cooking, cleaning, laundry, taking care of the pets ( the animal kind, not the human pets that some master collect) if there are pets in the household and looking after the Master/Mistress children if they are present.

Within this everyday life a slave must be able and ready to prepare for anything the Master/Mistress throws at them in the last minute. Take for instance the evening meal or a last-minute dinner party. Does the slave know the proper way a setting the table and serving the meal?

Their faces fall in disappointment when they are made to understand the slaves life is mostly composed of patience and study.

Yes, study. If not with actual books, then following the example of greater, senior slaves. Or learning every nuance of their owners character, so that they can more completely and seamlessly offer themselves at the right time and in the right manner.

True slaves, those who will be cherished and valued, will never allow their skills and talents to become stagnant. They will never be satisfied with their level of confidence. And they will always be willing to follow their owners lead, quickly, respectfully, and to the best of their ability.

To be thrilled at the touch of leather, aroused by the sound of harsh words, of satisfied by the security of rigid bondage is the mark of a lover.

To be thrilled by the opportunity to provide a useful service, aroused by a pleased not, and satisfied by the proverbial job well done is the mark of a slave. It may sound sever, almost anti-erotic. Until you see two people, owner and owned, existing in a complementary relationship where each suits the other like balances on a delicate scale, until you fell the energy of their rapport, you cannot understand how they fulfill each other, take and give in ways no negotiation could possible express.

Then you will understand theat singular intimacy that drives such people on their search for perfection. It is beyond orgasm. Beyond love. It can almost be called rapture.

So let us save you dreamers and fantasy seekers some trouble and letter writing. Your life with us and commitment of servitude and submission to us is as described above lived in the vanilla world of today. Your life and dedication to us will be comprised of doing the every day task and duties the Old Southern Slaves did for their Master and Mistress on the plantations of the Old South. There will be cleaning of the owners house cars, and grounds. There will be laundry, folding, ironing, and putting away clothing. There will be cooking of meals and serving meals, beverages, hors d?oeuvre, so a basic knowledge of cooking is needed, we can teach (train) from there. There will be personal service to the owners, bathing/showering them, massaging their bodies and feet with lotions. Assisting them with hair, make up, clothing and grooming of all parts of their bodies. There will be household and personal errands, shopping, for the house and family and a list of many others task that we do each and every day with out thinking about them. And yes there will be sexual service to the owners. You will be a slave to the sexual needs and desires of the owners at any given time of day or night. Your submission to those desires will be complete and without question and will be preformed to the owners pleasure without hesitation. For a list of some of those desires a reading of the profile is in order, as is a continued reading of this blog as more entries are made.

So to the many that have hot listed us, winked at us, read and learn and for those that truly have a slave heart and mind set and a deep desire to serve and live this lifestyle as we wish to live it We would love to talk with you

Submission and Slavery; Is there a difference, and the blending of the two into one.

For as long as we have been in this lifestyle and evan longer it seems the two terms have been interchangeable with each other and to many have come to mean the same thing. Yet they are very different in levels of service and commitment. One of the best definition I can offer about the difference between the two is that a submissive serves from a desire, seeking a reward from their submission, normally sexual favors, where as a slave serves from a deep desire to please, her reward is gained from the pride in seeing her Master/Mistress pleasure from her actions. In my real life experience with people who call themselves slaves I have found that many come to the point where they don?t think they are submissive because they don?t seek out experiences where they will necessarily be dominated in order to get their needs met. Most slaves I know enter into an interaction from the bottom and do not wait for dominance to cue them to submit. Most of the slaves I know feel that the quality of their presence will inspire dominance. Most slaves are very independent about getting their service needs met. They can serve in large families and have little or no sexual contact with the Master or Mistress of the house. Where as submissive seem to want personal, intimate relationships and submit to the one they are intimate with. So for slaves service can be a social experience but submissive seem to prefer intimacy for the act. Most of the slaves I know are very focused on presentation and energy and are self directed in adjusting the quality of their service. The submissive?s, however, seem to like to conduct themselves in a more reflexive mode and wait for the dominance to present itself in order to make adjustment in their behaviors. Most of the slaves I know seek skills such as food service, boot blacking, leather work and protocols, evan house cleaning and do so often apart from their Masters/Mistress while the submissive people seem to want to learn more sexual practices like providing anal or oral pleasures. Many slaves view Sm as something that the top provides for them. It seems submissive?s feel that Sm is something they provide for the top. That seems to be the greatest difference I have seen. While a submissive into Sm may indeed enjoy pain they seem to hold the view that Sm and sex are services they provide while the slaves I know feel that Sm and sex are rewards they earn from having served well. Slavery seems to continue to view the head space of slavery as an intimate one and define it as how they relate within an intimate relationship.

It is this level of commitment that causes a blending of the two into one. When one seeks to surrender their existence to being a true slave their whole mental, physical and spiritual outlook has to change as well. To understand this transition from one level to another and to understand the power of submission into true slavery, one must first understand what being a submissive means, where it comes from and how it is expressed. True submission and the journey into slavery is something that comes from deep within a person and is an essential part of their nature. It is something expressed from the soul and as such, it goes much deeper than the mere physical/sexual act of offering oneself to a Master/Mistress for pleasure. A person can behave in a submissive manner but this is not the same as being "a slave". A submissive might enjoy serving dinner to his or her Master or Mistress but doesn?t want to feel like a waiter, the recipient is "special" and that is how the submissive communicates that. The slave seems to feel that the service is "special" and that it is the slave who has earned the privilege of serving, not the recipient having earned the privilege of being served. To offer oneself completely and utterly to another, to surrender all choice and "power" requires an exceptional inner strength. High self esteem and a knowledge that in order to relinquish power to another as well as understanding that one must possess that inner power is essential. Here again the difference being for us is the slave seeks to be humbled. In being humble the slave do not make demands on Master/Mistress for that would be arrogant and communicate to them that the slave have made the judgement that she is worthy of their time and energy. Embracing and expressing ones slave nature can give one the most powerful opportunities to find the deepest levels of trust, power and the intimacy that can only arise from the bond of a Master/Mistress and slave. It is the ultimate expression of balance, the archetypal opposition of yin (the receptive principal) and yang (the active principle). Both sides being perfectly equal, yet forming a perfect whole. As a submissive seeking true slavery, one?s goals are to come before my Master/Mistress as an empty chalice to be filled.....or a blank canvas to be painted....formless clay waiting to be molded. Thru this exchange, you know that you will become more than you where before....the Master takes the raw material, or the blank canvas or the raw gemstone and brings out the inner lustre. In this experience, what many misinterpret is that they assume the Master/Mistress imposes his will upon the sub/slave and she becomes whatever he wants her to be. That is something we would disagree with....to us and our belief, the Master/Mistress brings out the qualities of submission and slavery in a more pronounced way. Rather than being told to "act" in a submissive way, it is the slave's role to remove veil after veil until who she becomes is the perfect reflection of devoted service and in serving her Master/Mistress, she finds an inner joy and balance that comes from knowing that with each veil removed, each boundary crossed, she becomes MORE of who she already is. Being a slave is ans should be what you are, and not something that you do, You have to be responsible for maintaining an honest self-expression all the time. You as slave should not be dependent upon the presence of another to be who you are, nor is it another?s responsibility to provide you with opportunities to be you are, but rather yours to seek circumstances that allow you to be such. Again for submissive?s people, the act of submission seems to be something they wish to have elicited from them by the power of another. When you feel, hear and see your Master's/Mistress?s pride in you, you know that you are elevated and adored above all women. You have truly given the Gift your soul to them and in that exchange they becomes as bound to you as you are to them. That is the beauty of slavery to us. There is a dynamic that exists where the more your Master/Mistress asks of you, the more you are able to give, and then the deeper our bond becomes. It grows exponentially. The perfect yin/yang of the Master/Mistress being the active principle in the TAKING and the slave being the receptive in the GIVING. Ones slavery is expressed in many ways: on a physical, mental, emotional and spiritual level. Without all of these levels, again, it becomes merely a physical act. There is a sacredness to submission as well. Like prayer or other acts of devotion, it is living your life with an intention and focus that always strives for the highest, purest expression. Putting the relationship first...always searching within for ways to please and offer more of your self than you think you can. It is this going beyond and pushing limits that becomes the most important reward of submission for a true slave...the place of empowerment and self knowledge and the resulting inner strength/transformation. To wrap your head around being a servant? How to create invisibility or seamless presentation? How to be invisible when not needed and yet present should a need arise? It is also dancing with the inner Shadowself...the parts of you that are about fear and being taken on the journey by someone (the Master) who will be there to catch you so you never really fall. The most special part of slavery for one is level of intimacy and soul connection with another. Each veil that is removed, each boundary crossed, each lash accepted and begged for, each time of being taken to the outermost regions of letting go of control.....all of this is the glue that binds the Master and slave completely to one another. To become completely naked and vulnerable on every level, then give more than you think you can and see the pride, love and devotion in your Master's/Mistress eyes is the greatest Gift imaginable.

To achieve this type of devotion and slave takes a commitment from the potential slave to the Owner. Jest as it takes a great commitment from the Owner to the slave. If the potential slave feels or thinks that they can or should be able to move from one owner to another to be trained in all the desired aspects of the lifestyle then the slave has chosen their owner unwisely. To achieve the type of inner peace and self awareness spoken of previously, the potential slave should chose an owner that is knowledgeable in the desired aspects of the lifestyle that they seek to explore and experience together. If the owner does not have the working knowledge of an aspect of the lifestyle then they should have the resources to seek out a Master who does so that the slaves needs and limits can be meet, all the while under the watchful protective grading hands and eyes of their owner. This lifestyle and slavery itself takes a commitment over a long term to achieve the type of mental, physical and emotional bonding that needs to occur to achieve a true rapturing of spirit and self. Dominance and submission seem to be a dance, an interdependent dance much like the tango. If dom?s lets go? The submissive falls on the floor. Whereas, Master/Mistress slave seem to be more like a drama, that salves have a bit part. The are on the stage all the time and the slave enter and exit as needed. The rest of the time? When the slave is not on stage? The salve is sewing costumes, running out and buying a violin string for someone in the orchestra, finding another outlet for the extra lights to plug into, making sure the ushers have plenty of programs to pass out and then, pop back on stage, say your lines, pop gone again. Anything else is mere fantasy play between partners