ARKITECTIN

WHERE TO BEGIN? I AM NOT A SUBMISSIVE WHO WOULD BE CONSIDERED TYPICAL AMONG "LIFESTYLERS". MANY OF YOU HAVE ASKED WHY? WHAT MAKES YOU SO DIFFERENT OR UNIQUE? OR THE POPULAR LINE OF I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR YOUR VIEWS, IDEAS & THOUGHTS. HERE YOU GO, QUIT WITH THE EMAILS.

THERE IS NO "LIFESTYLE". CALL YOUR RELATIONSHIP WHATEVER YOU WANT - HUSBAND/WIFE, BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND, MASTER/SLAVE, DOM/SUB BUT IT MAKES NO DIFFERENCE. EVERY RELATIONSHIP HAS THE SAME BASICS AND FROM THAT POINT ON FOCUSED ON PARTICULAR INTERESTS OR HATES. FIND THE ONE WHO COMPLETES YOU 'N VOILA YOU HAVE A RELATIONSHIP. THERE ARE NOT TWO RELATIONSHIPS IN THIS WORLD IDENTICAL SO HOW CAN THERE BE A "LIFESTYLE".

SPARE ME THE COMMENTS ON HOW BDSM IS DIFFERNT OR SPECIAL BECAUSE THE COMMITMENT, TRUST, DEPTH ..... IS MORE INTENSE THAN A "VANILLA" RELATIONSHIP. (ROLLING EYES)

GET OVER TRYING TO FILL A ROLE AS A MASTER/DOM/SUB/SLAVE ACCORDING TO SOMETHING YOU READ ON A WEB SITE OR BOOK THAT DEFINES TRAITS, RULES & REQUIREMENTS AS, OF COURSE, THERE ARE A MILLION VARIATIONS OF THOSE DEFINITIONS AS WELL.

DONT EMAIL ME ABOUT - HOW ITS NOT A ROLE BUT A WAY OF LIFE, HOW I SHOULD BE A DOMME OR A SWITCH, HOW I SHOULD NOT EVEN BE ON A BDSM WEBSITE WITH MY KIND OF THINKING.

I KNOW WHO I AM BUT AS I MUST LIST MYSELF AS SOMETHING, SUBMISSIVE IS THE MOST FITTING. DOES THAT MEAN I AM NAKED EXCEPT FOR A COLLAR, STARE AT THE FLOOR, ANSWER YES SIR, SIT AT YOUR FEET, DO YOUR EVERY REQUEST, PUT YOUR NEEDS ABOVE MY OWN? LMFAO, H-E DOUBLE HOCKEY STICKS NO.

WOULD I DO ANYTHING FOR A MAN OR EVEN A FRIEND WHO GAVE ME ALL THEY COULD, GO OUT OF MY WAY TO DO SOMETHING SO YOU DON'T, REMEMBER HOW YOU DO THINGS OR WHAT YOU LIKE? YES, AND I EXPECT THE SAME IN RETURN.

AGAIN FORGET THE SWITCH COMMENTS. ITS NOTHING BUT MUTUAL RESPECT, COMPROMISE, DESIRE TO PLEASE THOSE WHO PLEASE YOU - ALL THINGS EXPECTED FROM A MASTER/DOM/SLAVE/SUB.

IN SUMMATION EVERYONE IS A MASTER/DOM/SLAVE/SUB/SWITCH/VANILLA COMBO WITH A COUNTLESS AMOUNT OF DEGREES N LEVELS TO EACH CATEGORY. THEREFORE DESPITE THE RANGE, EACH IS DIFFERENT N THE "LIFESTYLE" IS NOTHING BUT YOUR LIFE & HOW YOU CHOOSE TO LIVE IT.