AreYouAslave

Are you a slave?

we can spent all day hashing over the meaning of slave vs sub, etc, etc.

Here it is in a nut shell.

One is born submissive and trained to be a slave. Being submissive simply means you really do not like to make decisions and when you have to there is always a battle going on inside you over your decisions at that moment.

A Master, Dom, whatever title is the current fad at the moment is the one person that can read you better than you can read and know yourself. He is also the one that can see in you all the things about you that are good even when you think there is no hope for you.

He can lead you and teach you...he can aid you in finding peace, peace of mind, peace of heart and soul.


Its not about how well he can tie a knot, its not how well he uses a flogger or single tail.

If that is all you seek...you are only seeking someone that will take you away for a moment, an evening, or a weekend from the dull boring life you now find yourself in.

Are you a go getter ,are you a person that can get things done, are you an aggressive person, in the everyday world, yet you know something is missing, you know you want someone to guide you lead you correct you when you have gone off the path. You do not want to loose who you are...you want to be you...


I seek one that is not lazy...a go getter, one that can get things done when I need them done in my life, in my profession and to know how and when to do it with out a lot of micro management.

Yes there will be rules and you will follow them and obey my commands, you will still be you and you will find that you have talents you have never dreamed of...and if you are thinking that I mean sexual talents then you are off base there for sure.

Oh yes you will be sexual and yes you may find talents there you never knew you had also.


Its all about growing and becoming better than you are. Finally living instead of just going through life half asleep, not even knowing what you had for lunch today because even though you ate a meal you have come to expect to eat, you never take the time to savor the food eat slowly and really enjoy the experience.


Is that living???


When are you...going to stop fooling yourself.

when are you...going to take stock of what you really are, what your really want and need.

You are here in this group.


Are you being something or are you wasting other peoples time.

If you send an answer to a profile with the intention of never following through then you are wasting another persons time, yours and theirs.

If you find that you never, ever finish anything you start...then you really do need someone that can take you and guide you in every part of your life.


If you are here reading this line...what are you saying to yourself??? Right now?? How do you feel??? Right now this minute.

Will you continue to drift??? Or will you take that step of faith???


It will be the one decision you will always be glad you finally made.

"Nothing is owed to you. You are a slave."