BEING NICE AND HUMAN IS A COURTESY, NOT A SIGN OF WEAKNESS!!!I can be soft, I can be hard. I like being gentle, I like being cruel. Or anything in between. There is no reason to limit oneself needlessly, so I try to keep an open mind to everything.I do have my limits, f.e. no K 9 and no children, but they are few.I like equestrian style dressing and keeping a pet.........