angelinchains69

THANK YOU 

To the men and women who have served this nation I humbly say "thank you" for all you have given to me. I will always be indebted to you. 

As W/we ring in the New Year my wish for each of Y/you is health, happiness, prosperity and finding someone who will be Y/your mirror. It is my hope that my friends will remain in contact and "new" friends write to say hello. 

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL!!!!

found this D/s blog at Blogspot...was interesting reading...

http://asubmissivesvoice.blogspot.com

while i should have posted this last week before the Thanksgiving holiday, i did not have a chance to sit and write a journal entry for here as i did for a couple of my other pages. 

i am THANKFUL for the many D/M's and s/s's i have met through this site. You have each taught me something about myself, about what i seek, what i want from this lifestyle, a D/M, and my life in general. 

to the VETERAN's whom write to thank me for my posts, it is i who THANK YOU for Y/your service. it takes someone very special to put on a uniform of the military, of a police officer, or firefighter. each of Y/you ran in while others were running out. it shows Your love and respect for Your fellow man and woman. 

again, THANK YOU for speaking with me, even if briefly, for in that brief moment Y/you taught me. 

aic

The following is said of veteran's:

A Veteran: someone, who at one point in their life, wrote a blank check payable to the USA for an amount up to, and including, their life. That is beyond honor, and there are way too many people in this country who no longer remember that fact. This is dedicated to all our brothers, sisters, moms, dads, husbands, wives and many more that serve our country.

i can only say, "THANK YOU". As simple as these two words are, they are said with tears in my eyes, respect in my heart for the men and women who serve, and have served.

To the "gentlemen" (and I use that phrase loosely) who have sent me repeated messages to "VOTE ______". Whom I vote for is up to ME, that is why I am the one who "pulls the curtain" so to speak, and I alone make the decisions for me. You have been "blocked" and "reported".

"Don't Tread On Me" is not just a phrase on a flag. I know my rights afforded to me by the U. S. Constitution and the men and women who have fought for me so I could have these rights. 

To the MEN and WOMEN who serve, and have gallantly served, I take this time to THANK YOU with my whole heart and soul. 

I just received the following email from a D/M not to long ago....

............yummy profile ..love 2 get 2 know and meet you ok? please give me the honor of persueing you ok? i can and will do all you seek i have a huge nylons and heels and breast fetish ..help enhance it too ok? ty...XXXX_XXXXXU@YAHOO.COM add me ... phone? Jimmy :).....................

I answered it as such:

Thank you for writing. I am not into the pantyhose, highheel fetish thing. Way too weird for me, sorry. I also am not seeking a D/M at this time. Cute yahoo screen name. I dont phone, i dont cyber as it states in my profile. I wish you well in your search.

This so-called D/M deleted the email before reading it.....was it polite, no. What I need from someone is an answer, was I too harsh? Impolite? Use incorrect grammar? Did I deserve to have the email deleted before it was responded to?

However it proves that this D/M that states he has 20+ years in the lifestyle is no D/M. Freak yes, D/M no, gentleman, definitely NOT. While I can be moody, and sometimes downright b*tchy, I at least read everything sent to me before I hit the delete key. I have taken the time to "block" this so called D/M. I am lady enough NOT to use his screen name here, and NO I will NOT reveal it in an email to anyone.

okay, okay i will get off my soapbox and put it away for another time and place....

More Food for Thought...

HAPPY 236th BIRTHDAY AMERICA!!! THANK YOU TO ALL THE VETERANS WHO HAVE SERVED SO THAT I MAY LIVE FREE. HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY TO ALL!!!

Food for Thought...

• To the many D/M's out there who think that the M/s or D/s lifestyle is all about them, it is not. 
• Both type relationships are the deepest, most meaningful relationship that two can have; however on day one it begins as a friendship something more vanilla than kinky. 
• It begins with open communication that means You both have to leave no stone unturned with one another. Do NOT expect Your prospective s/s to lay her life out there for You to pick on like a vulture, while You remain silent. Remember You too have a past, he/she has a right to open the door to Your past as You have asked him/her.
• Expect politeness, protocol is for when two have decided upon a collar, whatever size, shape, color it may be.
• If You expect You prospective s/s to send You emails, pictures thoughts, please expect to do the very same for Your prospective s/s. It is only fair. 
• Do NOT expect Your s/s to wear their heart on their sleeve if You keep finding fault with what he/she says or feels. Repeated tearing & shredding of body parts causes scar tissue which is hard & ugly. 
• If You DO NOT understand what Your s/s has told You, be man or woman enough to ask them to explain. As one of Your many teachers/professors have stated before, "There is no such thing as a dumb question".
• Lastly, treat Your prospective s/s like You want to be treated, with respect.

many of You think "age" is unimportant. to many of us it is just a number, however when putting in parameters to seek out a D/M, many of us want a certain age group, please be HONEST when putting your age into the "age". i just heard from a D/M with "50" in his profile and when talking to him, he stated he was "60+". while it wouldn't have bothered me if he would have come out and stated "my profile is wrong, or i need to clarify my age" he was angered when i called him on this. 

DO NOT BE ANGRY AT ME BECAUSE YOU FAILED TO BE HONEST. in order for TRUST to be established both D/M and s/s need to be HONEST with each other.   

a woman who is submissive, allows herself to be collared, to have her life ruled by her D/M. a submissive knows that in doing this, she gives up control to Him and TRUSTS that He will do the CORRECT things for both of them. 

i keep hearing from men that have tons of things checked off in the checklist section however feel it is either unimportant, or not necessary to write about them in the other section. 

while it is good knowing what a person's likes and dislikes are, it is much more important to know how they think. that is what that rectangle at the midway point through the "edit profile" page is for; to let others know what O/one is seeking in either a D/M or s/s. 

it isn't very hard to write one line or ten lines about what O/one is seeking. think about it, which would Y/you rather have, a "checklist" or a partner "who knows the difference between there, their, and they're"? me i will always choose the second one. i prefer a man who not only knows the difference, but can use them correctly when He is writing to me, talking with me, and talking with others. 

okay, i will place my soapbox away for the time being, thank You for listening. 

on this MEMORIAL DAY i wish to say THANK YOU to any and all of you who have worn a uniform to protect my freedom, keep the peace, or fight a fire. yes, while i know this is the holiday that we remember our fallen heroes, it is good to remember and thank the living ones as well. again, THANK YOU for your service and dedication.

i have updated my profile because it seems that the way my profile was formerly stated, i was "TOO HONEST".  i was taught that "Honesty is the best policy", obviously i was wrong; thus meaning people would rather be lied to than face reality and the truth.

for those of You who regard honesty and integrity as excellent traits to have in a submissive or slave, i wish for You to let me know who You are because as of right now i have only met three whom i can honestly say know what these traits are and treasure them in themselves and the woman they have collared.

To the so called "D/M" who told me i had a "small mind" this is for you: A mediocre D/M tells, A Good D/M Teaches, An Excellent D/M Explains, But a true D/M Inspires. 

You have shown that you are none of the above. You are a what the people who have lived this lifestyle, a wannabe. You are too busy trying to prove your "manhood" to anyone who will allow you to "use" them. however, you have missed the boat/train/plane totally. 

As I stated in my rebuttal, which you deleted without reading, and any D/M will verify, a D/s relationship is the deepest, most meaningful two people can have in a lifetime. Maybe one day when you are done playing your little games, and have exhausted yourself of every "good submissive" you have come across, enjoy the loneliness. It is what you deserve, and what you have created. You will have no one but yourself to blame. 

To the any other Dominant/Master who are reading this. I am very well educated, well read, and am tired of hearing how "little" i have to give. let me make something very clear, to the "right" D/M, i will give my body, heart, and soul for You to hold in Your hands to protect & use. 

~angel~

i believe that chemistry is as important as trust, respect, and love. i truly believe that for D/s to work both parties have to have a bond that others cannot break. i believe that bond happens from the time they meet. i think of it as a spark that lights kindling, that begins a fire, that consumes both of them and binds them.

more things about angelinchains:

i am not a switch. i do not know the first thing about being a Domme/Mistress. i am not comfortable being the person "on top" unless it is a request by whomever i am collared. even then i do not know how to be "in charge" and have a tendency to fall back on my submissive ways. 

if You are married/separated, in a "bad" relationship, or thinking about adding me to Your "poly" household, DON'T. i am not interested (been down that road, and i did not have a good ending for any of the parties concerned). i want a man who is free to be with me and me alone. 

if You are reading this and think these are somewhat opinionated, or prudish then i am not the "one" for You. a good D/M will accept, respect the limits a submissive lays out when they begin to talk; if He does not, He will never gain her respect or Trust, and trust is the main foundation of BDSM, the only other foundation component being honesty.  

lastly i wish to address the Dommes/Mistresses who keep emailing me about becoming collared to them. thank You for reading and appreciating my submissive nature, however i am not seeking a "female" D/M. i do however wish You well in Your search for one who will serve You as You deserve to be served.