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About AnEloquentDom
I am a Dom. I've read plenty of preconcieved notions on what a Dom/Master should or should not be. From both Dominants and submissives. None of that interests Me. I know what I want and what I don't want, and if that conflicts with your view of "the lifestyle," then so be it.
With that said, I'm looking for more than a "beat me/fuck me" relationship. As exciting as the sexual aspects of BDSM are to me, I'm equally attracted to the mental aspects. I'm looking for a sub/slave who is also a girlfriend. you must be both. Love, power, control, trust... these are essential.
I'd prefer to have a monogamous partner with whom I can explore an equally romantic and erotic D/s relationship. The intensity of an intimate connection makes the experience hundreds of times better.
With My personal view of D/s, I have many rules and requirements. None of them are outlandish. Some may be public (which side you are to walk on), some may be private (eye contact restrictions) and some may be sexual. These would be built upon like any understanding in a relationship. I view a BDSM relationship like any other: it grows and evolves.
I do believe in feminism and equality. Women should have the right to choose to be subserviant. There's nothing unequal about giving your freedom away. In My opinion, the trust shared between someone who gives their freewill away to Another is the highest form of equality. Saying that though, my Slave will be less than me, but no less of a person.
When it comes to sex, I can be sadomasochistic (I enjoy both ends of the spectrum). But My sadistic side is proportional to My partner's masochism. Meaning that if you do not recieve pleasure from pain, I do not recieve pleasure from inflicting pain.
My goal for this site is to find people to talk with. Both Dominants and subs to find perspective on BDSM, and potential partners. I'd love to find an intelligent, strong female sub or slave to eventually lead to a collared relationship. My ideal is to find the Lee to My Mister Grey. |
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