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About anaberration
I used to belong to someone. I wanted to belong to someone so badly but had no idea that I did until a dominant found me, started ordering me around, and sort of "claimed" me. From this experience, I found, that while I wanted to trust him completely and give all of myself to him, I also felt that he tried to emotionally manipulate, ignore, and then demand things from me. That was rather tough for me. It was long distance too, of course. Started out long distance and stayed that way.
I found that while I do want to trust someone completely and give myself to then in a submissive way, I don't want to tolerate people who are fundamentally incapable if treating people (even slave-girls) with some consideration. At the very least I need honest communication. If i have no respect for you as a human, then while nasty tough sex can be had, the type of lifelong devotion and care that a submissive gives her dominant will be hard to synthesize.
on the one hand, I can be super smart in the sense that I question everything and want to understand people as well as societal phenomena. I can be every bit the passionate citizen who cares about the way things are, super opinionated in a considerate way, etc...while some days I just really want to be naughty(not today apparently). I can be uptight sometimes, but usually I trust sadists after getting to know them better.
Trust can be tough, since I am not a particularly trusting girl. I am cautious and rather wary of people, after betrayals of my trust by those close to me. I value honesty, and I myself strive to be honest and earnest as well. I generally tend to keep my opinions to myself, which is not to say I have no opinions. Au contraire. I am currently trying to get my act together post college...considering possibly further studies, definitely continuing working for now...which can suck. my sense of humor is rather american and probably categorized as low brow and goofy. I dislike humor that is mean spirited and takes away from other people. Yes, I am rather 'nilla. It's true. If I weren't nasty, of course. I try to treat people fairly and respect, but that doesn't mean that I like everybody. While not a pessimist, I can be doubtful of most assertions made by most. I try to question assumptions that result in harmful or undesirable consequences.
I can be wholesome at times, when I don't feel like being bad; I can be funny, humorous, goofy. if I could, I would dress up all the time. at times, my standards for myself are rather lofty, and then I remind myself not to be so intense, uptight, and serious. This brings me another point: I can be a rather intense girl sometimes, so because of this, I find myself drawn to ambitious, strong, and sort of intense guys to either balance me or sedate me.
Generally, I like men who are somewhat athletic, hwp, strong, capable, smart, sadistic (of course), good listeners, and have a good sense if humor .
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