I do not care what any dommes say, it is harder to be dominant than submissive. As a female who was a slave for years, I have no problem submitting, and that is all you have to do. As a dominant, you have to know what you want, what you want to craft your slave into, what skills he will need to be taught, what punishments to use, what to do for fun and on and on. It is exhausting, but after years of training and punishment I feel it should be easy because I lived it. It is not though, I feel lost.