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**UPDATE*

I am no longer looking. I've resigned myself to the fact that I will never find what I am looking for online - and definitely not on this site - I will continue to come back to chat with those of you who have become good friends of mine.

All the best to everyone in their search for the elusive "ONE"

Hello everyone ...

If you are curious as to my name it means "food of the gods" or "anything that tastes or smells delicious" and I am both ..... *wide-eyed grin*. I've been away for awhile, trying to live the vanilla life, but found it to be so unsatisfying that I am drawn back to this site once again. Please be aware that I am involved with someone right now, but the relationship is a sexless one at best, so here I am.

I am a sexy submissive woman looking for a Dominant Man. No offense, but if you are a switch, I'm not interested.

I am a natural submissive so I've been this way all my life. I didn't really know what it meant to be submissive until about 6 years ago. When I first heard the word "submissive" I thought it was an insult. I thought it was a sign of weakness, but on the contrary. Upon doing a little exploring and a little research, I found out that many strong and intelligent women are submissive and I am proud to be among them. I am looking for someone with Intelligence; Honesty, and Integrity. I am a grown woman, I refuse to go into the chat room and act like a brat to get your attention. If that is what you seek, then I am not the woman for you.
I don't put my submissiveness on display for all to see. One Man will have that part of me, bringing with it mutual pleasure and satisfaction. This does not come easy. This can only come after mutual respect and trust are reached. I believe that in order to have a healthy and happy relationship, both participants have to grow and learn together. Upon first meeting me you may find me a little guarded as I have met others in the lifestyle that professed to be one thing but turned out to be another. I am fully aware of my role in the lifestyle and a D/s relationship and am fully prepared to fulfill that role however I need to. When that special someone has earned my trust and respect, enabling me to let down my defenses and let him into my heart, I hope that he can make me feel safe and cared for. I want him to hold me close to him in mind, body and spirit.

Although I do believe that people must be compatible in the sexual area of a relationship, I also believe that outside the bedroom, they must also share common interests. I am looking for a best friend, a lover, a Master ....... in essence, I am looking for EVERYTHING, I want the entire package and will not settle for anything less.

calmmistress
 
 Age: 24
 New York, New York