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	About AmberCyn I do keep a journal of sorts. Read it to know more... Other profile is MistressACyn; these are my halves. *wink What You See Is What You Get: I work hard and play hard. Getting into the swing of this divorce thing. I've been told you can't find love, it has to find you. Been learning to let a lot of things go but not my self. Asked often what I am seeking.... the foundation of friendship built with mutual honesty, respect, openness, trust communication and dare I say, Love? From there, I believe we can go anywhere. Absolutely expecting a relationship for the long term. I'm a realist, very selective... and so too should you. Chat function does not work for me here.

"YOUR" Roast

You: You drink that beer gives me a strange idea.

And I totally feel what you're saying about BDSM not being easy to discuss out in public... in fact it's quite near impossible; at least I don't have the nerve to approach and initiate that type of dialogue.

Me: uh oh, what strange idea? lol, I got a strange idea too! I'll bring it up if someone tries to convince me I'm the one for them. It feels like a set up though, so I'm basically letting them off the hook. *wink picture plz A~

You: let's see, the thought would need to be explored, examined, and expounded.
may I ask what you do for work?? Although I don't recognize you it would be a bit embarrasing if say we worked nearby.

Could we perhaps chat on yahoo?? I could share my pic, along with some interesting art in case you haven't seen the series before.

Me: I was thinking a beer bottle of my juice... what does it matter if we worked nearby? we share a similar interest - why is it embarrassing? what point would I have in "outting" you? You already sent me art of queening. A~

You: Queening and Cuckolding, my only 2 BDSM interests and i'm obsessed with the ideas.? Strange?? Not sure if it is... i don't seem to fit in with the typical BDSM practicer because of my narrow scope of interest and my?almost infinite list of limits {or would that be limitations :) }

i'm paranoid to the Nth about online communication.? My job is comprised of some of the most intolerant thinkers on the planet, if somehow my online meanderings got out in the work place not only would it be a constant source of ridicule but no more career advancement.? as small minded as that might sound... unfortunately i'm just an average regular guy that needs to worry about banalities like that.

but I digress.? how good looking would I need to be to continue to get your attention.? Unfortunately i've never been mistaken for brad pitt.? I suppose i'm asking how high are your standards?

Me: Yeah, ok. I get it. Of course I have high standards but personality and compatibility are most important. I have no desire to be compromised in my Vanilla life either dude. Interesting you have this idea you're the only one. you take care, A~

You: well i know i'm not the only one with that concern, but some people do not care or don't care as much.

Would you like to keep chatting?

You: You know I could write an excoriating message, but instead i'll just point out that you were rude to me and then you compounded that by ignoring my final email.

Honestly just because you're a 'domme' doesn't give you license to be snippy with people.

You take care too.

Me: You can write what you want. I don't care. you make it seem like you're the only one with risk and don't give the common courtesy of a face-pic like I asked. No mutual respect, no convo - it has nothing to do with being a dominant or a submissive.
This is the end.
A~

Moral of the story: I don't care if no one wants to talk to me after this post. I will roast anyone who acts like an asshole by trying to project their issues onto me.
I care and I understand discretion. I'm only asking you to "give up" what you already have the benefit of seeing with your own eyes in my profile.

Thank you to you others that give me the same courtesy.

Take it light.

I may or may not respond to you when you send a picture in your message to me. I absolutely will not respond without a picture.
It's not a superficial thing as much as the beginnings of a mutual give and take.

I'm through with the shock-value.
Plz send a picture (headshot, not ur cock) when messaging me. I'm letting you see me upfront, I expect that from you as well.

Well I'm here so at least part of the equation is easy to figure out. It's almost 97% certain that people I meet on the street are vanilla and whilst I like the flavor, I'm not for it all the time. Anyways, BDSM is joked about but not easy to bring up in "normal" conversation.

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