I forget how some people are online can get on their high horses and put other people down but if that's the way they play they're going to wind up broke and alone in the end.

As a long term dream my lilone and I have been been wanting to add a sister wife. We have been looking several years now. it's something we feel is natural and we have love and time to share with another a little, sub, a sister to my sweetchks equal in every way.  

We are finding it very hard to meet people that have the same kinks as we do it gets frustrating but we haven't lost hope 

only those who want help and be saved I'm not talking about bible mombo jumbo. even if you consider yourself a sub or a slave you cant think of yourself as being worthless and of no use to anyone because you can the best best damn sub or slave in the world and if you are then you would be consider a prize by your dom ,master or owner. If not find another that will ;-) that my two cents I'll get off my soapbox now!!!

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Thank you for your journal post about having worth as a sub or slave. I have encountered several 'Doms' who have told me that I have to think of myself as worthless in order to be a good sub. It is refreshing to read someone who doesn't feel that way. Thanks again and good luck in your search!

well I gotten great comments from several different  members on CM now about my profile and the views I have within and I wanted to take the time to thank them all for their kind words. :)

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FYI for noobs especially Submissive: you are entering a dark place the world of BDSM it is a natural hiding place for sexual predators and sex offenders. Be safe in everything you do and when meeting a person in real life for the first few times.

FYI calling your yourself a master doesn't make you  master you need to earn that tittle!!!

 I liken myself to a teacher or a mentor...

FYI for noobs especially for Submissive: you are entering a dark place the world of BDSM it is a natural hiding place for sexual predators and sex offenders. Be safe in everything you do and when meeting a person in real life for the first few times.

as far a relationship I've found it one the few things it better to want that need it

I tear my heart open, I sew myself shut My weakness is that I care too much and Our scars remind us that the past is real. I tear my heart open just to feel again then I'm reminded of why I closed it off in the 1st place. (adapted from scars by papa roach)

if you don't believe in something you can fall for anything. - a keithism

you can never have to many friends but at the end of the day "I'd rather have four quarters than 100 pennies."

"Christianity creates some of the best perverts."- unknown

I got a tattoo last April as a reminder of what I done in my life up until now and why I get up everyday and that I never want to forget anything that has happened to me in my life because it has made me who I am today. I like who I am so ok with my past. One must learn from their mistakes and grow as a result or they are doomed to repeat them. I spent several years designing my tattoo to mean something: the words never forget the tree of life, the Triquetra, and the three Scottish thistles are all symbols. The tree of life is for the making of new life. The three points the Triquetra are for the Mind, Body and Spirit the circle part of the Triquetra is the cycle of life, death & rebirth. The 3 thistles are for son, Daughter and I as I belong to them my Mind, Body and Spirit in this life and the next

My word is my bond I’m sure everybody as heard that saying.

So if someone where to doubt me, or my word should I take it as an insult to my character?  Or, should cuddle them, hold their hand, or just say f*ck it if my word isn’t good enough well to bad!

I consider myself a modern day renaissance man I would say a jack of all trades but it’s much more than that because the latter doesn’t include my scholarly pursuits. I can spend a day at the art gallery staring at painting and the next tuning up a car and changing the oil. There is nothing than anybody can do for me that I can t do myself. I can sew. I can cook at one point in my life I wanted to be a chief and still can make a great chocolate mouse.  I kind of a boy scout because I like to be prepared.

I believe everything you done/happened in your life makes you who you are today. So, if you like who you are then rest assured it couldn’t have happened any other way. I give my self over yearly for a time of reflection of my past and where I’m headed and to make sure I’m doing what I need to get there. I’m spiritual but not religious. My moral compass points due north at all time. Zealots and fanatics are bad it’s ok to have strong feeling about something but if there is no room for discussion then….

If you don’t learn from your mistakes you are doomed to repeat them.

I've been thinking does calling yourself a master make you a master.

How do you expect someone to follow you if you aren't capable of caring for yourself. you need to be self sufficient and have your affairs in order before you start searching for a sub/slave.