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	About ALotofMoxxi Back after a long hiatus from this site. Dont waste my time if you are a flake or a bot. Not interested in Domly Twue Doms who dont know what a real Dom is.and Im not interested in the female equivalent. Submission is earned. It is not demanded. Im a person not a fetish dispensing unit. Get to know me and go from there. Giant nerd with a FetLife under the same name. Overweight, out of shape, and disabled. Ask anything else youd like to know. As an aside I dont accept chat requests. Im on mobile and thus only standard messaging is what will work.

So apparently the new fun thing is to drive by insult someone in their inbox and then immediately block the target. It's the immediate blocking that the person is doing that, to me, makes them lose all validity associated with their supposed higher moral and ethical superiority. So this being said let's go over some basic polite behavior that apparently people on collaspace don't follow but I would appreciate if we are all going to speak like adults. -Seriously, Your Kink Is Not My Kink. Just because it's not your thing doesn't mean you need to denigrate mine. -when pertaining to financial domination. When I use the term "legitimate finsub" I am referring to any financial submissive who actually follows through. Don't say you're a fin sub if your going to send any and every Domme you see a message saying you can tribute x-amount of dollars a week if all you want is a Skype session that just benefits you for 5 minutes. Save yourself some trouble and just go find a cam girl or some free porn. -I like to converse and get to know my subs. I also like to make sure that you are doing this responsibly. I DON'T want anyone to tribute to the point that they put their own health or welfare in jeopardy. This is why my lists are so varied and why I never specify an amount. Nor will anything "sexy" be purchased. I am here to provide a MUTUALLY beneficial partnership that just happens to involve money and kink. As an additional point of fact I do talk with people without them tributing. I have no issue talking to anyone nor am I going to demand a tribute for talking. As a matter of fact its all there for you to do with what you wish. I'm not demanding anything. -Insulting me by calling me a hooker, a joke or telling me I'm lazy and just don't want to work is fantastic. Thanks for insulting the cripple good on you and I hope it makes you feel better about yourself. If you'd like to ask what that disability is then please don't hesitate. If you're respectful about how you ask then I might just answer. If not you can go fuck yourself. -I do have kinks outside financial domination this profile just happens to be focused on that. It would be just peachy keen if you remembered I'm not just a fetish dispenser or a target for your insults so you can feel better about yourself. Go pick on someone who will actually fight back. I won't. I don't even have the spoons to get out of bed most days. -update 11-26-2017 the only reason I'm going to all this trouble is because I'm tired of having random sub's come into my inbox asking to tribute. I'm tired of having to re explain why I don't care about it and why I have all these rules and crap in the first place. This whole thing is literally driven because of the men. I'd much rather spend my time talking to people and actually finding genuine connection not fending of trolls who make wild claims or repeatedly trying to devise new hoops for people who are in into financial kink to jump through. I feel sad that I have to spell it out. This is all designed so that people who come to my profile stop pushing their kink onto me -keep insulting me though it's fantastic. I save every message. I will update and add more as it comes up.

The first legitimate finsub who sends $1000.00 USD to my Google wallet can have my personal email address because why not. The following terms and conditions apply. 1.) I will reply and converse to the best of my abilities for the next year. 2.) I have a busy life and am working on leading a more active life. As such even with your generous tribute those things take precedent. 3.) Along with my email you will be allowed 2 online sessions a month for the next 12 monnths, you will receive a personal hand written thank you note. 4.) Should you chose anything additional of one of my lists in those 12 months you will be granted other benefits as well extended to use of my given name or even my phone number alongside other things. 5.) (Update 11/25/2017) 5A) if you have read all of this and have decided you have some comment or critique you absolutely feel you need to tell me then make sure to do so without immediately blocking me. Removing the ability for response just makes you seem like a child. 5B) a legitimate finsub is by my definition anyone who actually follows through on a tribute whether it's something as small as $5 or something higher. See my journal posted on 11/25/2017 for a more indepth definition. I'm sure this will be updated as I think of other things.

I'm really only here to meet more local friends. Anything else is only an option for women and those who identify as women. I'm not currently interested in submissive men unless you don't mind serving domestically or financially. I'm polyamorous and pansexual and in a committed relationship with one partner who would be considered primary in some form or fashion. This is my profile and mine alone. Not looking for a unicorn and no interest in being one either.

Huge nerd and I enjoy tabletop and other kinds of gaming. I also have a fet with this same name. I rarely make the first move so if you find something you like or have questions message me. I'm actually pretty damn awkward around women I don't know so my best approach is that I don't approach at all. To be honest its probably a fear of falling only to discover the person is straight. Rejection sucks on any level. As such I also try to let people down gently. If subtle doesn't work then I move to blunt and if that doesn't then I definitely become a bitch.?Respect given will get returned.

---------ATTENTION ALL SUBMISSIVE MEN THE FOLLOWING PERTAINS TO YOU AND ONLY YOU BECAUSE I'M TIRED OF BEING ASKED---------

FAQ and Post :

Men who can't read have asked about tributes. To prevent time wasting I will just answer that here. 1.) You do not need to ask to tribute me something I'd much rather it just get done. Then it's a nice surprise. If you want to offer proof its from you in case you select a bonus item then mark it as a gift and include your username in the note. 2.) Seriously don't ask if you ask I won't respond. There are hundreds of things to pick from.just pick something or move on. I hate time wasters. 3.) I will not exchange Skype info for a tribute. I don't have Skype. I have a fetlife profile with the same user name that I feel more than adequately verifies who I am. 4.) Purchasing certain items will however get you things like my IM or my PSN tag or even my phone number. Those things aren't necessarily expensive and they are random on each of these lists. 5.) If you disagree with this philosophy on tributing then go find someone else. The things found on these lists are things I want. I do not need them. None of them are sexy. Deal with it. It's not about you it's about a tribute for me. Last time I checked that was the whole point of submission through tribute. ++!The lists are below. And they all range between ?.99 and $90.00 but you and I both know you're not going to buy anything off of them so, yeah.

LIST #1) This is a general tribute list and contains everything from food gift baskets to things i will use everyday and things that will make my life easier. http://a.co/c5rPB7g LIST #2) This list is beading supplies for making pieces and keeping busy during the day since I cannot work. I enjoy making things and it keeps me sane. http://a.co/9vzw0m7 LIST #3) This list is more mundane food stuffs. Things that the foodie in me loves or would love. http://a.co/3deyPhy

I'm contemplating deleting. Or at least taking a break from this site. I have met ONE individual our of hundreds of talked to who has seemed real enough to give my info to. And he isn't even what I'm looking for in a partner just a good house boy for cleaning. I wonder whether I should just be like all of the other Dommes I see out there. Maybe I should I just abandon the things that make me myself in order to pander to idiots. "What?s the point of it all, when you?re building a wall And in front of your eyes it disappears??

So my partner is AMAZING and I got the R2D2 Xbox 360 for my birthday. Now I'm debating making a gamer tag for both ps4 and Xbox 360 and auctioning it off. You can play with me if you tribute that month and you send proof of tribute as either a monthly membership or as an item from my tribute list. If anyone is interested let me know so I can gauge respond and see if its worth it.

Its my birthday tomorrow but it doesn't feel like it.

My birthday is in 4 days. Plenty of time for legitimate slaves and subs to pay tribute and still utilize 2 day shipping. I have things ranging from $5 to $95 and you can choose what to tribute. I'm a budget friendly Domme.

Apparently Ethics and being a findomme don't mix. It's funny because frankly you'd think that subs, slaves and the like would want something in return for their tribute but I guess they don't.

All you subservient fuck toys who claim to want to tribute I could use a gift card to Domino's or pizza hut right about now. I'm home alone with nothing in the way of dinner and no way to leave my house to get pizza.

I've decided to create a blacklist of slaves and subs who beg and ask to tribute and then never follow through. I may also include people who have acted disrespectfully on a human to human level as well. I can't post it here because apparently it violates t.o.s. but I have one nonetheless if any fellow Dommes wish to have a copy.

So for some reason it still shows search results for SoCal as my closest results even though I am now located near Sacramento. Do other people have this issue or is it just on my end and if so how do i fix it?

New rule. Don't contact me, male or female, if you have no intention of carrying on a conversation. especially if you are a submissive male.

If I ask you a question I expect an answer back and when you don't answer you confirm that you are nothing more than a fuck boy who isn't worth my time.

Can someone just lie to me and tell me everything is going to be okay. This is not a good year.

I am seriously beginning to get upset at the lack of legit communication on this website. It's either a spam bot, a submissive male who wants nothing more than a fetish dispenser unit in a female meat suit, or a Dom who decides the conversation isn't going their way (me showing my face or being all cute and playful) and they abruptly end the conversation. I can only assume that when asked how I'm doing. No one really wants to know. If you ask a question I'm going to answer it. If you ask it respectfully I may even answer nicely. But spare me the initial message of "How are you/How was your weekend?" If you don't want the genuine and honest answer of my life is falling apart and is super stressful. I'm not here for your convenience or to placate you with lies of "Oh everything's wonderful and happy and I'm as content as a Disney princess." Fuck right the fucking fuck off because I'm not alright, shit's not fine, life sucks but I'm surving. Let me know if I can upgrade from surving to living. TL:DR I'm a bitch boo hoo. Get over yourself. And fuckity bye if you don't like it.

One month left to clean and pack everything. There is a voice in my head telling me that doing this alone is going to bite me in the ass. Or in this case my already screwed up back.

Since when did knowing what I want and what I need become a detriment. Forgive me if it's listed in my profile that I don't want a sub male unless he is a financial sub or a domestic one. I have to use a walker to get around and most days I barely have the energy to make myself food. I'm not going to just fucking demand service and give nothing in return. Fuck. I swear I feel like Crowley. I just want to be loved. I also want to love in return but I'm getting real tired of people being so fucking offended when I don't just turn into some whip wielding banshee Domme screaming obscenities and stepping on balls. I want a damn PARTNERSHIP out of servitude and won't settle for less. A sub will never just be my sub they will be an equal partner in my life and have their needs attended to as well to the best of my physical abilities. I'm not even actively looking for men anyway so those are my terms. If you want the spot in my life I'm saving for a woman (or female presenting individual) then your ass had better damn well either be a financial or a domestic sub/slave. Or both. I don't do sissification. I don't do CBT. I don't do any of that shit. It's listed on my profile as well. I'm more Mommy and caring than domineering. Kill with kindness. Loyalty is earned with respect not fear and it sure as hell isn't demanded. It's cultivated.

How ignorant of me to think I should be valued as a person and not as a personal fantasy fulfillment service for every person who messages me. If you don't want a non online, local, PARTNERSHIP then don't bother messaging me. The same goes for wanting a picture. Your not going to get one. End of discussion. Move on. From now on just assume that I charge $1000.00 USD for seeing my face or any other part of me.

Bah I'm bored. And I need a domestic slave. If anything to help with the stuff I can't do because of the stupid surgery

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