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New To Kink/Want to Play Safely? LOOK HERE!: If you're from Richmond, VA, or the surrounding area and want the listings to local, safe, PUBLIC meet-ups of the local kink groups (Richmond Lifestyle Group, Richmond TNG (under35), Greater Polyamory, etc), PM me. Collarme doesn't allow links to other fetish sites that are less meat-markety, but trust me - it's the best, safest way to find friends, mentors, play partners, and to just learn with no obligations at all. If you're not from Richmond, but still want to find local munches (safe, public, vanilla meet-ups for kink people) PM me and I'll send you the list of ones in your area :)

"I am the tide.
The ebb and flood.
I erode everything I touch.
I drown that which succumbs to my unrelenting self.
It's your choice where the current will take you.
For I am constant and resolute
in my never ending cycle of change."



I only come on here to send people looking for the actual community to munches..

Searching for a slave(s) who's into a wide spectrum of masochism (or willing to be trained for), as well as shamanic kink (shaman's/wizard's slave). DD/lg and DD/boy is pretty up there on the list as well.
Friends are fine too, as well as an other kind of play partner that shows up :)

Sadist - Daddy - Top - Dominant - Lover of Brats
Play by P.R.I.C.K over SSC and RACK- Personally Responsible Informed Consensual Kink
Sociopath (antisocial personality disorder) and proud of it.

I am extremely polyamorous (consensually). I have a husband, babygirl, girlfriends, and an array of other close friends I love playing with, as well as do a lot of casual play (I attend at least one monthly party). If this is a problem for you, we are not a good match.
All of my relationships are currently niche relationships (husband and I are best friends, but not very sexual, girlfriends are not into M/s, etc), and I'm looking to eventually stumble upon play partner(s) that fit the M/s or heavy TPE D/s dynamic that is a core part of my being.


Anyone interested should be prepared to meet me in a public setting and do just that - get to know me. I'm not looking for one-night stands or play dates, I can find those at the parties I attend and through the community (and get them plenty). I honestly expect to find my next play partner through said community, so if you're involved in the kink scene in RVA, we may see each other around.

Originally I had two entries up here that designated what I wanted from different gender identifying individuals when it came to D/s and M/s play, specifically in the sense of shaman's slave apprentice/sacred whore/wizard's pet/etc. It amuses me that it took until us talking (and not even about that) for me to realize the differentiating was ridiculous. That said, this will be slowly written over a span of time. For now, it is a placemark that stands to clarify that I don't care what your gender is. If we're meant to walk this path, what you identify as is not a qualifier, it's just another aspect of you that I will cherish and enjoy like every other aspect of my works of spiritual passion.
I am a constantly evolving individual. I follow the path of life with passion, and due to it I live day by day looking as if drunk on the ecstasy of all things.
That would be because it's true. What I look for in a slave can be a long list that will end up as qualifications of what I expect. I should know by now that trying to go that route (aka the check list) is detrimental to what I am and how I function as a shaman. So, how do we then proceed? By keeping the list simple.

If you wish to serve me, you will need

  • time
  • patience
  • an open mind
  • the ability to laugh
  • to be able to accept (clumsily or gracefully) when you, I, or anyone fall flat on their face
  • a drive to learn
  • a desire to serve/please
  • a will of your own
  • the ability to survive and evolve
Everything about how I dominate someone is reminiscent of the life balance. This means you will be degraded and loved, hurt and nurtured, experience deaths of self and new breaths of life, things that will horrify you and fill you with wonder, care and neglect.
ChavSlutDonna