aFamilyforYou


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	About aFamilyforYou We have had so many flakes contact us here, oh so many flakes--guys mostly; game players. Our family is based entirely on respect, love, and trust. Any breech in promise or commitment will instantly disqualify anyone from any possibility of ever meeting us. Period. If you live within 50 miles, if interested, you need to be prepared to meet in a vanilla venue in Corona within two weeks. If you live farther away, you must have in hand plans to relocate to and work within Southern California pretty much before there can be any discussion of a relationship. We don't chat, IM or otherwise. There is simply not time enough in our lives for this sort of gamesmanship or fantasy. The family has a lot to offer a willing slave or submissive, we have a lot to offer, and friends will verify this. Please, let's work together to return Collarme to the vital forum that it once was for meeting new D/s partners. With this profile my poly-V family is seeking: -- a "heteroflexible" or bi submissive or slave woman in their late 30's to early 50's, -- A male service slave or service submissive who indicates that they are bi in their profile, --possibly a full time, pre or post op transsexual, I hope this family will sustain beyond my own, eventual passing. For this reason there is a multigenerational philosophy at work. The Dom is oldest, followed eight years by his pet and another eight years by his switch. Not just anyone, of course--there must be chemistry all along. We travel, hike and camp, so some degree of fitness is helpful. We engage in creative enterprises--photography, music, ceramics, woodworking. Like most American families, we veg some in front of the large screen, go out together, see movies. With sex and BDSM, what is it that Data would say on Star Trek? "[We are experienced] in multiple techniques." We garden some of our own, organish produce on our 1/3 acre home and raise chickens, ducks, geese, and turkeys elsewhere. We each have separate abodes stringing from Colton to the Temecula area, with the family house in Corona. We are nonsmokers, non drug users, relatively well adjusted individuals. Our family members are expected to carry their weight financially, but no more than that. Be you submissive or slave: Dating first. That should be obvious. Just as in vanilla life, we all need to start somewhere. Hell, I won't even discuss sex until the third date. (Well, maybe a little.) Here find love, nourishment, and nurturing. Use our houses from which to stage your life, for this is about a life together, not a kinky game. Within reason, you will be permitted friends and playmates from outside the family. My take on BDSM is that "you can have anything you want," and as a family we work to make that happen. If what you want involves the peaceful dedication of slavery, this is even better. What we do not want is a "bedroom submissive."Your safety and welfare are as important as your enjoyment of life. Stay for a year, and you become vested in the family living trust for as long as you stay. This is intended as the long term alternative to floating in and out of brief, fiery relationships until you look back and wonder where your life went. Full or part time we live together, bed together, plan life and problem solve together. There can be but one Master for now, though we would consider a switch woman. Sorry guys: wimps only! There is strength in family, we just do it differently and in accord with our alternative lifestyle. The end game is not the conventional third wheel threesome. All are treated as equals here, allowing for differences in previously established roles. As we get older, more and more of us own our own houses (including this one) or may want to maintain a separate residence. This is easily done within a radius, say, of 50 miles. Beyond this range, there are alternatives. What we won't do is to pay to relocate you. Relocation from out of country? Right. My house is liberal and Bohemian, we raise much of our own food. Devout Christians, Mormons, and similar cults will not fit into our family. We are well known, connected, and active in the local BDSM community. If you are interested and serious in your interest, you would not be considered forward to contact us. You may correspond with all of us from the outset. If you initiate contact then abandon that contact, we will no longer consider you interested. In other words, we will not brook flakes. I have a more expansive leather family, perhaps ten people, with whom we are not sexually involved. The key here is polyfidelity. We are not swingers. But my leather family is important to me, and we try to get together at least monthly. Pictures are available on under Uncle_Bear. With this profile my family is seeking women in their 30's and 40's, even the early 50's, and eventually younger the years clomp past. Multigenerational: I hope this family will sustain beyond my own, eventual passing. Not just anyone, of course--there must be chemistry all along. We hike and camp, so some degree of fitness is helpful. We engage in creative enterprises--photography, music, ceramics, woodworking. Full or part time we live together, bed together, plan life and problem solve together. There can be but one Master for now, but submissive men will be added as quality guys present. Chemistry is essential. There is strength in family, we just do it differently and in accord with our alternative lifestyle. The end game is not the conventional third wheel threesome. All are treated as equals here, allowing for differences in previously established roles. More established slaves and submissives will frequently have a residence of their own, and you can be incorporated as well. I will consider someone from outside the area, but we will not support or financially relocate you, so all family members must have some minimal financial means. Neither is this a place to escape one's spouse. I will consider a sub/sub couple who are earnest about joining a family. My house is liberal and Bohemian, we raise much of our own food. Devout Christians will not fit into our family. We are very well known, connected, and active in the BDSM community. This is, and always has been, a nonsmoking house. If you are interested and serious in your interest, you would not be considered forward to contact us. You may correspond with both of us from the outset.

I just received this message from a rather tart "submissive, who then immediately blocked me, preventing a response:

"Fuck you! You seem like an old nasty longeinded [sic] dirtbag. I have read more books in a month than you have read in a lifetime. Once again Fuck you!"

Guess there is no point in telling her that one does not obtain a masters degree without some reading. Too bad. I was rather looking forward to discussing cosmology with her.

I hidden nearly anyone I've contacted who does not appear interested enough to say so.

What is this, women pining for lack of experienced doms, then running once they find one.

Woman, though art fickle!

OK, looks like it will be three of us for a while.

OK, Pam is moving out. It was only for a short while. While there were three of us in the house, we were not a threesome. LOL

I just ordered a potter's wheel. Added to the guitar and piano, there are lots of creative opportunities for the family here.

We have takin in a close friend, a "second tier" family member recently released from her mistress. Oh life is so tumultuous at 28! I hope that my family can make her transition easier. What comes for either of us, after that, is simply unknown.

On of the greatest privledges of being a Master is the enhanced ability to help others.

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