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aerofaerie

Usually I am a fun-loving person, I love to laugh. I grow very attached to the people I can laugh with. If someone is laid back and doesn't take everything I say seriously they definitely win points.

I am new to the lifestyle and have been having a difficult time getting involved. I live in a small rural town in Southwest Michigan with a crap car that can't make long trips to a bigger city like Kalamazoo or Grand Rapids to get involved with my 'local'(ha!) community.

True submission is a gift that I greatly desire and hope to one day gain to nurture and let grow. I love submissive men, to go against the grain of what society has deemed an acceptable role for men takes great strength in my eyes.

I tend to be visually attracted to feminine men but that type is by no means the only one I look at, it's not that I don't find a masculine man attractive, I just look at the feminine guy with long hair first. Who knows, maybe I'm a wannabe lesbian ;)

I would have to say the only physical thing that I might not like about someone is excessive body hair. Nothing like really wanting to lick the back of someone's neck, but knowing if I did a hair would likely get wrapped up in my tongue ring! Bleh!

I am a dominant woman. I know a lot of men that get the misconception that because a woman is dominant, she somehow loses the desire to be treated as a woman and to be courted. Boys, don't make this mistake. This is real life and not a porno. Don't forget I am a woman because I can assure you, I won't forget you are a man.