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About acurious1
Was MIA, I'm back.
I've been a little tied up. (GRIN)
Please don't message me asking if I will meet you. I WILL NOT.
Read below and be patient for a response.
I am Not looking to belong to anyone at this time.
I have some hands on experience, have been back and forth between two Doms. Both of who have different ways and desires. I however, have desired both of them and have been unable to choose.
Honestly, I am contemplating starting over. I do not know how to leave them both behind but it just might have to happen for all of our sakes.
Anyone out there ever been in this position? Trust me when I say it was totally unexpected, unplanned and I would never have predicted this in a million years.
acurious but conflicted lilone
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Ok, so I've received some good advice and best wishes. I am left with what to do?
One thing that a few Doms seem to repeat is "you can't serve two Masters".
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Something for the Dom's to think about!
Have you ever put yourself (your mind) in your submissive's place and wonder whether or not you'd be happy?
Is she happy with what she is getting out of the playtime, relationship, mentorship...whatever it may be? (and no I do not mean the specific pain, pleasure etc...see I knew what you were thinking and I see those grins). I mean as a whole in general.
Just quietly and for a few minutes think about HER POINT OF VIEW and imagine yourself as her in that very position, time, relationship or whatever it is. And ask yourself if she is happy with what she is getting? If you were her, would you be? You KNOW what you are getting out of it, but what is she getting out of it?
I am not saying that you don't take the submissive's needs and feelings into consideration, so please no hateful messages.
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