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AchingSensuality

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AchingSensuality - Female Dominant, Pittsburgh Pennsylvania | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About AchingSensuality


And those who were seen dancing, were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music.
Friedrich Nietzsche


I am seeking a full spectrum life-time relationship that incorporates the D/s dynamic. What this means is that both our vanilla and our chocolate lives need to intertwine and be mutually satisfying. Sounds like a tall order? I realize that it is. However, I won't settle for anything less.

I am not a professional dominatrix, a financial dominatrix, nor a service top.

I am not here for casual play, and I am definitely not here for hook-ups or online play.



I am intelligent, attractive, feminine, and fun.

I am a diamond. I have many facets. The ability to be strict and sadistic is one of those facets. The ability to be nurturing and loving is another. The point is... I am a real woman with a multi-dimensional personality, I am not a one-dimensional BDSM porn fantasy caricature. What that means is that I expect to be treated as a woman, and not as a fantasy caricature. In order to engage my attention, you will first have to engage my mind.



I believe in Dominance and submission, and the pleasure to be found in pain. I also believe in submission as a cherished offering given freely to your Dominant, and the pleasure to be found in intimacy and deep feelings. I do not get off on the notion of the submissive male as an inferior worthless worm. If that is your kink, then while I'm happy for you, it means that we are not compatible. Worms are wonderful creatures... in my garden. At the end of the leather lead I carry, walking willingly beside me, I prefer there to be a stallion.



So, if you are, in turn, intelligent, attractive, unmarried and single, and a non-smoker, then I look forward to speaking with you.



If you are not local to my area, then you must be willing to travel to get to know me, I will not travel to you.



Things that make me happy:



  • A man that approaches me with respect and is a gentleman at all times

  • A man that is strong enough to own his desire to submit

  • A man that writes to me in a manner that demonstrates he has actually taken the time to read my profile and wants to get to know me as a person

  • A man that enjoys making me laugh

  • A man that enjoys a great conversation

  • A freshly spanked bottom

  • Watching how you squirm as you are being flogged

  • Seeing you in chains as you kneel at my feet

  • Exploring together both our vanilla selves, as well as the sensual and the sadistic (for me) aspects of our relationship. As I mentioned, I have many facets.



If you believe you have what it takes to make me happy, then bring it. But bring it with the words "redder than red" written in the first sentence of your email or you will automatically be disqualified.




"I truly want to be the smile in your life, the patient silence,
the tree that both supports you and yet bends and bows before you,
I want to be everything for you,
my Owner, my Mistress, "


An extraordinarily beautiful sentiment from a gentleman on FetLife named Dyehen.
Let yourself be silently drawn
              by the strange pull
              of what you really love

              It will not lead you astray
                                       ~ rumi
According to my personal dictionary...
The definition of a "bottom" is an individual that wants to be served.
The definition of a "submissive" is an individual that wants to serve.

According to my profile, I seek only the latter. My profile is spot on.


I have a fetish for tea. I love the stuff. This weekend, while searching out a new brew, I found a tea that, well, describes me to a tea… pun intended.

Iron Goddess of Mercy Oolong Tea: Brightly aromatic, floral, hints of coconut.    The only thing missing from the description is… best served steamy and hot.  ;-)

Needless to say, I bought a pound.

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