Achante

Good Day  everyone ,  I don't understand  why people have to rush to meet, or have  someone submit to them , without knowing anything about them, or their background, do people seriously want to put their lives in danger ?. 

   I've been in the lifestyle  a few yrs,  witness a lot of danger, seen  a lot   at  first  that could of ruined  a beginners thoughts of coming into this lifestyle, but  luckily  for me, I had a few good   Dom's,/Men   that were not looking  to abuse a new person, take advantage, lie,  or use words  to manipulate  my thoughts  into doing   what  they wanted, but the opposite .

   They showed  me   warnings, patients,   that I don't have to be polite, if  spoken to wrongly, I don't have to answer  or submit  to  everyone calling themselves  a *Dom* , I would have to see it for myself, feel it  for myself, recognize them as a Dom ,   and  having to call them *Sir* .. was not called   for, If they were  not  my Dom, that is   again  something  they had  to earn  from  me,  because   I felt it was  right.

   They warned  me  I may be called  a fake,  not a  sub ,   because  I'm very  strong willed,    and I don't walk around   with blinders on   , I ask a lot of questions,    many  feel offensive,  because they don't want to answer, ,  but yet I refuse to answer any, , the conversation stops,  You see  I don't care, just  shows me,   Your not   for  me,  You wish to control anything   and  anyone.  also shows  me  if I was  to enter  a relationship with you,  there would  be secrets,  I would have no say ,    .

   This lifestyle is  a two way street,  as a Dom  You cant  be  anything  without  a sub  etc.. as  a submissive  etc.. we desire to serve. etc..  , we all need  each other.. You can  be pig headed as  much as you like .. if you didn't need us.  for any reason. you wouldn't  be on sites or attending  events  for this type of contact.

Just remember were not all fake out here on any site , if we tick you off, perhaps its because we see around you , we know what we want ,desire, after all we are human to begin with , so treat us as such , before placing a label on us , also , D/s is not only bdsm. its vanilla too , your potential sub etc..has a job, family prob reg friends , its not just one world we exist in its both , you eventually will be part of this, get to know her/him in both worlds, before, holding out a collar and asking her/him to be yours.

Good  Morning/Eve   what ever  time You are  on , I sincerely  wish  everyone  a  Happy   New  Year,   and  Hope  everyone  receives  what  they  rightly  deserve,   and  may all Your  wishes   and  desires  come  true .

    I  myself   don't  wish  for  much    but  for  good  health  to my  family   and   friends,   and  myself , I have  no control  over      what  the  world   does, or  receives ,   just  have to  make the best   out  of   what I have .  Bleesed Be