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ShibariCon was incredible. For those of us who enjoy rope it is an event that can’t be missed!

   ShibariCon this weekend. I am pumped!

2012 Schedule

So far; February MadtownKinkFest and Sinsations in Leather

Coming up; ShibariCon, July MadtownKinkFest, and Kinky Kollege

Should I consider Thunder in the Mountains?

   Another great Kinky Kollege is past. Now until February... .

   Kinky Kollege starts tomorrow. It will be a good time! 

   This past weekend at the MadTownKinkFest was wonderful. This event continues to get better and better!

   You have to love the girls who start to chat with you, then suddenly are involved with some fellow who lives three States away. They don't even bother to tell you they are "involved". You have to read about it on thier profile.

   Of course in the end this is a good thing. Often the reason why girls get involved with men out of State is because it is easy to say a few of the right things from a distance and then the girl's imagination fills in the rest. The girl falls for her own fantasy. This is not what an in person, real life relationship is about, but apparently it is what she desires. 

   I have vented and now I will go back to understanding that this is just part of meeting people on-line.

ShibariCon continues to be one of the best events on the planet! It was a great weekend!

Last month was the MTKF and tomorrow is Sinsations in Leather. Life is good!

The topic of Dominance and submission isn?t so cut and dry. I read profiles, mostly submissive but sometimes switch and Dominant profiles as well. I also visit chat rooms and one theme I notice in many of these forums is that a desire to please someone is a submissive trait. While this is true some people seem to think if a Dominant does something for his sub that somehow this makes him submissive. I think this is taking a simple concept too far. Of course it is a submissive?s place to serve and make their owner?s life easier. However my girl is a part of me. She is my third hand. It is my responsibility to care for her needs. So if from time to time I enjoy putting a smile on her face then I am going to do it! I don?t think that doing something for someone has to have D/s overtones. I think that doing something for your partner is at the core of all healthy relationships, vanilla, kinky or otherwise!

It was another great ShibariCon! The energy is just incredible! I am just coming down from the buzz!

   I do sometimes take it for granted that the people on sites like this understand D/s and know what they are doing. However yesterday I was in a chat room on another adult site and it was clear that most of the people in that chat were playing at this and/or only interested in kinky sex. Not that there is anything wrong with that, but I know a D/s relationship can offer so much more! The passion, closeness and bliss that can be attained in a committed D/s relationship just can?t be achieved in a vanilla relationship or by just playing at this. Although I sometimes enjoy casual play I do realize it is just that, casual. I know what I want and I know how to get there. All that I need is to find the right woman!