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abusetoi

Male Submissive, 44, Coral Springs, Florida
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abusetoi - Male Dominant, Middleton Idaho | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

abusetoi - Male Dominant, Middleton Idaho | BDSM Profile on Collarspace - photo 1

About abusetoi

I'm looking for someone (who will become) special (to me). I am looking for physical attraction, emotional maturity, honesty and sincerity, not necessarily in that order. I prefer intelligence and open-mindedness, and not just in a sexual sense.

I desire someone who behaves appropriately to the situation/surroundings they find themselves in. I would like to meet someone with a high degree of intuition. I want someone who *wants* to be trained.

There is no need to be afraid, and frankly, fear will only hold you back in life. I believe in the win-win; I ascribe to the notion so much, that for me, there is no other way. Either we both win, or we both lose. I do not confuse this with 'tit for tat'; that's a game I do not play.

We each have our roles, and unless it is agreed upon by both of us for any amount of time, our roles will not be subject to ad hoc role reversal. The nature of the relationship must first be established and only then may the possibility of experimenting with role playing be explored.

I'm serious about this, so don't waste my time; only contact me if you are serious as well.



I have deleted my photo because you stupid whores don't recognize a good thing when you see it, so you don't deserve to gaze upon my image. I finally accept that collarme is a worthless collection of scammers, chickenshits and fake-ass profiles that are here for nothing more than ulterior motive. Fuck you. You're getting NONE of this.

 

I reference a previous entry:

 

8/2/2012 8:28:21 PM        
 

Never chase love, affection, or attention.  If it isn't given freely by another person it is not worth having.

I enjoy bondage; particularly rope bondage. I am interested in Shibari. Would you like to make yourself available for practice?

I just love the unstable people I sometimes encounter in the BDSM 'community'.

submissivelady49 messages me and lets fly the following rant:

"your not a Master, your a sick pervert is all."

So I compose a reply:

"Oh really? Would you care to back up your accusation with some clear and concise supporting observations? Because I don't think you have any idea what you're talking about. You also do not come across as submissive, what with your accusation and insult all in one short sentence, out of the blue. And at least I have the courage to post a photo, whereas you do not. So who is for real here and who is just playing games?"

 

Only to find that she has blocked me after having sent her message; keep in mind this person has never messaged me before. I have no idea who she is, nor what she looks like. Based upon her behavior, I would say that this person is not submissive, but an opinionated loudmouth who is apparently unsatisfied with her life. No manners whatsoever.

Never chase love, affection, or attention.  If it isn't given freely by another person it is not worth having.

* I have to keep reminding myself of this.

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