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Female Switch, 22, Melbourne
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Male Submissive, 50
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Male Switch, 48, Aberdeen
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About Abstracts
Rewritten Profile-3/13/11 We've spent over a year getting what hands on experience we could in this lifestyle. We're beginning to find our niches and the places we belong as individuals and as a couple. There have been some great times and some not so great, but such is life. It is what it is. We've learned a lot and are always looking to learn more. And none of it will be worth it if we don't make some wonderful friends along the way. We're sustainability minded. In fact, we are now land owners, having obtained an acre on a cooperative in Colorado. We'll be moving there this summer. Our main priority on this site will be to find a woman (domme, switch, or sub) who will not only fit into this lifestyle, but fit into our life to create a poly household. We've had experience with a few different women in bed and have some wonderful friendships. But we're looking for something more. We want someone who is willing to work hard. We'll be starting a small organic farm with our land. Not only will someone who is willing to work along side us on some sometimes physically demanding tasks be a requirement, it will be a necessity. It's a hard life. But it's a simple life and it's very fulfilling. We want a woman who can think for herself, even if she's a submissive. We want a woman who is healthy and who can keep up with us in our goals and endeavors. Between dommes, switches, and submissives, we'd mostly like a submissive. A submissive would be sub to both of us. We don't like setting core rules for a complete stranger as we believe the specifics of a D/s relationship are dependent on who the Dominant(s) and the submissive are. So if you're a sub and you're with us, the relationship would unfold naturally. Perhaps your submission will be something only seen in the bedroom or perhaps it will be something 24/7. Regardless, we will always take your opinion into consideration when we make major decisions regarding our lives. As for switches and dommes, we'd adopt a more equal relationship with you. It would unfold naturally but in a different way than with a submissive. You would have equal say in all major decisions. As for a power dynamic, it has the potential to be very interesting. We're very laid back people but territorial at the same time. We may butt heads at times. But what makes us able to have a relationship like this is communication and patience. We've got both in abundance and you should too. But if you're a domme who thinks everyone should treat her like a goddess, don't message us unless you can part the Red Sea or turn water to wine. If you're the princess type, don't message us unless you've got a crown of diamonds and a royal birth certificate. No matter who it is, we want someone who we can have a relationship with outside of the bedroom. We prefer nerdy, well read women. We both prefer our women curvy but in shape. Someone who enjoys anime, the outdoors, and traveling would be a dream. We've got ideas for three person cosplays we'd love to do and if you're into table top games as well, that's even better. Kinks? We've got lots. The male is Tobias. He makes first contact with most people. If you get a message from us, it's most likely from him. If things go well with the conversation, Shea will chime in and you may even receive our respective YIM names and/or phone numbers. Tobias is dominant in just about every aspect of his life. He is a natural born leader and has even accepted the role he's most often put into, even if it's sometimes more of a burden than a blessing. On the cooperative, he's already holding an office within the hierarchy after much begging on their part. He has a strong back, strong hands, and a good head on his shoulders. As a dominant, he's not really into "scening." He is a sadist at heart, but prefers to mix pleasure with pain whenever pain is brought into the bed. The physical side of his kink is almost purely sexual. He enjoys spanking, restraints, gags, hair pulling, biting, scratching, throat fucking, knife play, asphyxiation, riding crops, and much more. He prefers a submissive who is very responsive both with her body and her voice. The mental side of his kink is very intimate. He likes to see what makes a submissive tick and use it to push her buttons in just the way he wants. Outside of the bedroom, he uses and reads body language to get the responses he desires and enjoys using little enticements throughout the day to prep for the night ahead. Foreplay can last hours or days at a time with him sometimes. It's all about the build up to a culminating moment in order to achieve an even more spectacular explosion each time. He collects swords and is interested in starting a small black smithing business on the farm. His nick name is "Silver Tongued Bastard." Shea is a switch at heart. With women, she's always been the dominant one. With men, she mostly ignores them until they earn her respect. Sexually, she prefers women, so Tobias is lucky to have such long hair. ;) When she's being submissive, she enjoys being held down and having some nice rough sex. Hair pulling, asphyxiation, scratching, biting, and light pain are big turn ons for her. As a domme, she is still exploring. She fantasizes regularly about taking a strap on to a woman and going to town. She enjoys being a nurturing type of domme, someone who the submissive can look up to in all things. She is flirty, cuddly, and has a very strong feline personality. She made high marks in the International Baccalaureate program in high school and plans to continue her education when she figures out what she wants to major in. Having been raised around religion, she is seeking to explore spirituality as Christianity didn't ring well with her. Egyptian mythology has always fascinated her. She loves the mangas Rahxephon and Red River. Bonus points if you know what those are. In her spare time she enjoys reading, writing, nature photography, and women. On the farm, she wants to grow medicinal and tea herbs to sell her own home made brews. She's also very interested in raising chickens. And if you really, really want to please her and make her purr, give her a back rub or a hand massage. You can also find us on FL under Tobias_Alexander and AncientFelinity. And we make no claims to being professsional photographers, but it's something we want to delve deeper into. If you're a woman who would like to pose with Shea for a shoot, let us know. Lastly, while our main priority is finding a long term relationship, we're not against casual playmates. It's a great way to gain experience. We practice safe sex and we're always safe, sane, and consensual. And we're under no delusions that a single, poly, bisexual, attractive female is easy to find. So if you're willing to go the extra mile for us, we'll go the extra mile for you. |
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Rewrote the profile the other day. We'll be posting a picture to verify our ACTUAL existence soon. Hopefully this will net us a better response. |
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Just to clarify, we do not want a stupid piece of meat on our bed or against our wall. We want someone strong as a person. Someone who has the will to, not only submit to us, but to viciously defend our claim to them when we are not around. We're not into humiliation. We are perfectly secure in our roles without having to degrade anyone. Thanks. |
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