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Male Dominant, 36, West Palm Beach, Florida
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Male Dominant, 47, New York
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Dominant Couple, 40
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About absinthedreams
Hello ALL,
First off I need to make it clear that I am not just a switch...The fact that this site only allows for a choice of 4 role determination is a bit off setting, I have come full circle in the lifestyle so to speak. I know there are things I still crave and desire as each title. but I know that I would be happy deciding that role with a partner not the other way around.
Right now I’m just looking. Not sure where I want to go with this. Things in my life are complicated to say the least at the moment.
Mainly I want to be around those that I can spend time with in and out of the bedroom. It doesn’t have to be 24/7 .
as a side note I would like to say if you are married/partnered dont bother messaging me. I cant stand anyone who has to cheat to get around their desire. grow up be a man/woman and tell your partner before you fuck up their life and whoever else you bring into this destructive spiral you create. And as if I had to make this clear I dont care that you are in an "open" marriage. I hate reading half way down a profile to see this shit in parentheses. So what. Why the fuck are you even on this site. Im still not interested. Thank You and have a nice day.
Please dont let my screen name taint your thoughts of me, I do not use drugs. I will not tolerate anyone that does. I dont consider marijuana use to contend with this, personally I dont care for it, but it you enjoy it on occasion no problem.
Anyway moving on. I would say I am of the eccentric minded or at least I can be, I can also be totally normal, lol. I enjoy being around thinkers, gamers, people with witty and sometimes dark sense of humor.
I like to learn about worldly things, read, write, travel, and lots of other geeky things too. Like video games, ren faires, MMORPGs, Comic/Anime/Dragon Con. TECH expos. You get the idea.
I always seem to get stuck at this part. I guess you are wondering about how I am in terms of role but since I said before I cant really pick one, let me explain.
Each role and desire adapts to the person that gains my attention. Lets just say, If you are a man that is easily a take charge kinda guy, im sure submission will come forth abundantly. Or maybe you are more of a laid back type, that can admit wanting to switch ever now and then but still maintain Dominant, Im ok with that too. In and Out of the bedroom is all negotiable for me. Maybe Im being confusing. I will have to think on this a bit.
Oh yeah, and being a bitch doesnt make you a Domme it just makes you a bitch with a stick up your ass. Many of you need to realize that you are better off serving and having your ass on tap for Men because we all know thats what you need to get that chip off your shoulder.
please feel free to ask me anything, or just say hi :) Im not one of those silly high protocol types that needs to lay down the rules right off the bat. pfft. this is still a personal site. Good luck with that if its your forte. I say drop the games and doublespeak and be real. Thanks :)
P.S.I do think that one day I will want a long-term relationship, something permanent.
Again as if I really needed to say this, no Im not in anyway close to the pic in my profile. Nor is it intended for representation of that purpose. Its a drawing. A very good one I might add. If you read this far you should know I like comics by now. Its something I like I thought it was cool enough to put up. Usually visual artist and comic enthusiasts would agree this picture is fucking awesome. That is all. ~ |
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This site is getting really lame. :/
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Once again Im back trying to see if this site is even worth coming back to. I know my current profile isnt up to par but noone really reads these things anyway so who cares.
fyi TOOL is an awesome band to listen to and I can list probably ten songs that fit into the D/s world. <3
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Its been a long time since i have come back onto this site. The profile really needs updating but I just dont feel in the mood to do it today. So if you are reading this poor excuse for an introduction on my about me. please note its about a year old. blah.
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Taking a break, half the time I don't feel I fit here anyway. Its hard to put into words who I am and what I want. Most people need to meet me to really get a sense of the person that I am. Thanks to all that have responded. I'm trying to clean up the mess I have gotten myself into. But if I leave and don't come back or I don't get around to messaging you back . My deepest apologies. Be well~
autumn
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?some music i like in no particular order
red hot chili peppers
buckcherry
tiger army
rancid
the casualties
the distillers
sub humans
nirvana
pearl jam
audioslave
soundgarden
alice in chains
pantera
testament
iron maiden
machinehead
black label society
motorhead
mudvayne
slipknot
theory of a deadman
shinedown
three days grace
nancy sinatra
patsy cline
johnny cash
l hate (c)rap/hip hop/any genre of this
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I get alot of shit for not posting a pic, so I'm going to rant about it for a moment.
?1.? no it is not because i am hiding something
?2.? its my personal beliefs not to have my picture taken, in fact my own family has fought this issue with me since i was little, if i wont do it for them why would? i do it for you
i will always be the type to over look physical attributes for mental and emotional ones.? if we cant connect and communicate on a deeper level, then you having wash board abs means nothing to me.
?the unconventional
?with the above being said im going to allow those that care to know what i do find attractive
Dom men??
?ok im tall so if you want to exert a physical power over me you need to be my height or taller, weight proportional is idle,
i do not like bulked or overly muscular men
tats and piercings a plus
sub men
?again my height or smaller, slender, pale, or untanned, androgynous is a turn on
women
?my height or smaller, curvy, slender, androgynous, nice tits? some body mods are ok?
?thanks, have a nice day ;)
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?I get a lot of messages stating my introduction is vague. So let me clear up a few things.
?First, I am a switch. although I have few intimate D/s relationships I have explored my enjoyment of both sides.
?For me it is more about chemistry with the individual. Ive found there are few that can curb my head strong nature. Its more about the psychological hold then the physical one.
As in my personality,? I exhibit a more dominant manner, therefore submissive nature individuals feel drawn to me that way.
For me bdsm can be a lifestyle, but that does not mean I expect to be in play mode, 24 hours a day etc etc.
As for limits, I abide by the law of nature,legal and sane(always SSC).?? I think bdsm has evolved in something that goes far beyond the actual idea of what it was meant to be.
Bondage Discipline{Dominance/submission(slavery)
?Sadism, Masochism. B/D, D/s,S/m
More About Me:
?I am a jeans&tshirt, loud music playing, outspoken, free thinking, fighting for the cause, anti establishment,gun owning, free American.
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Well I might have been too hasty this time around. After the usual wave of under achieving messages, those that seem so desperate they will say or attempt anything, to get a response.? Soon died down , of course it was calm again, nothing for days. Well if you want something done.....yeah so I continued to encounter some amusing results but in the end found illustrious ones that I have yet to see on this site much. And for those of you that I have replied to thank you, although it didn?t seem to be written in the stars. I have truly met some lovely people and befriended some of you, I do hope good things await for you as well.
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