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Dominant Couple, 43, San Mateo, CA, California
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About aBDSMMaster
I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for over 30 yrs. BDSM as a lifestyle is something I believe in. I do believe we are all either Dominant or submissive. I know what I want and expect you, at least to some degree, to know what you are looking for.
I am currently involved with someone who I have no intention of leaving, but who has decided the lifestyle is no longer her focus. I say this up front so there is no deception or remorse. I will accept and respect your position, whether single, involved, or married. I just do not wish to be called as a witness in a divorce proceeding.
I have needs which must be met, both physical and mental. I miss the mental side of D/s very much, as well as the (somewhat) sadistic physical nature of things. Keep in mind that sadism, like most things, is relative. I am sane. I use safe words. I respect hard limits. I am not looking to make anyone bleed (though leaving a few hidden bruises does make Me smile).
I have been both with men and women. For the purposes of this profile I listed myself as "bi", though I have never been used by a man in any sexual way. On the other hand, I have used them (safely, of course). From a BDSM point of view, I have no preference of one sex over the other. Sexually, I do prefer a woman though I have found that a talented mouth is just that, regardless of who it is attached to. I hope I have made this a non-issue.
I'm sure I will add more as time goes on. The response rate on here is a bit overwhelming. Patience is a virtue... I will answer all. If you do write, all I ask is that you sign a name if only because it's the right thing to do. Trust and Respect need to be earned, and I am old enough to know it is a two-way street.
WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. |
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