I am VERY impressed with the responses I have gotten regarding My last journal entry, the consensus being: it's great as long as things are in the safe, playing, beginning (insert word of choice here) stage, but once they progress into the serious, confining, REAL (ditto above) stage it ceases being 'fun'. This is an obvious over-simplification of those beautiful responses (My apologies), but it hits at the heart of the majority.

I have a question I want to pose to the male subs/slaves. It's not a rhetorical question; I'm truly interested because this has happened to me (more than once). Why, when I believe things are going well, would a sub disappear? Why not simply discuss anything that's troublesome? Is there a reason why a sub (who says they want to be owned by a domme) would act as if that domme no longer exists? Is there ever a good reason to simply ignore all attemps at contact by that domme? I want to thank you in advance for your honest replies...

I have recently become aware that I may not be strict enough for most here, and that's okay. I will find a submissive male who will be fulfilled by what I have to offer him.