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TwisttheLeaf

About me

I'm a landscaper, jewelry designer, nail tech, farm hand, nature and landscape photographer, gas station attendant, literary RP'er, cancer survivor, on-again-off-again botany student, garden guru, and all around usually balanced and well-rounded guy. I'm a nature enthusiast and spend a good deal of my free time outside whenever possible. I especially love the rain and, to be honest, I more often than not find the summer months to be a slow crawl through hell. I'm quite introverted (an INFP on the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator), and can often come off a bit socially awkward. I have a hard time mincing words. That means I often end up being quite blunt, although I am aware of it and I do usually try to temper it a bit.

About Me (re: D/s and BDSM)

Prior to my introduction to D/s and BDSM, I started out as a neutral/dominant personality type with a tendency to top both in and out of the bedroom. Thanks to my partner of over 8 years, Gid, I have become increasingly educated and comfortable in the areas of D/s and BDSM. Our kink is often violent and far from mainstream, but it works for us. I am Gid's submissive. Gid is my Dominant. My submission applies only to him. It's something that only he seems to draw out in me. This dynamic applies even when he allows me to top him at times when I'm feeling the need to do so. Do not assume, just because I am submissive for Gid, that I am submissive to all. All aspects of my submission (and my Dominance, for that matter) belong to him, and him alone.