I’m a good looking, fairly fit looking guy in my 40’s. I have a brain and a sense of humour. Apologies for no pic on here, but I'll send you one when we start talking. I'm nice!

I’m looking for a dominant man. I’m not gay, let me say; although you might not realise it, because I’m a gentle, sensitive kind of man. But my sexual preference is for women. But I’m looking for a dominant man, although you could be part of a couple………

That’s because I see being dominated by a man as offering the particular type of ‘abusive’ relationship I want and need at this point in time. I’m happy whether you’re gay, bi or straight, and whether you’re single or in a relationship, m/m or m/f, although in that case your partner needs to either also be involved or at least be consenting. I’d prefer you to be looking for a long term, full time relationship, but I’ll also consider regular meets with someone suitable. But no one night stands. Well, unless you’re very special. and then of course, I’d want more than a one night stand anyway! I can travel or accommodate initially, and am happy to relocate if required for a serious suitable relationship. Most of what I’m going on to describe is about the play aspects of the proposed relationship. Obviously, I appreciate there is more to it than just that. I am happy to also provide domestic and other services to you and your household as required. Domestic service with benefits could work well. I’m a good housekeeper and can cook; I can also chauffer, deal with paperwork and light outdoor work. Depending on how we gel, and what you also want, I’ll be either your sub or slave; I’m easy, but it does depend on the harmonics between us.

Obviously, I don’t mind if you’re young, fit and gorgeous, and hung like a horse………but all of that is less important than your personality, attitude and ability. You needn’t be vastly experienced - I’m not myself, although I have a good grounding - but I’d like you to have some idea of how to make me scream safely and enjoyably………kill me later if you want, but not straight away! Where’s the fun in that?! Well, for me, then…….!

Personality - ideally, you’re a man who is strong and dominant, and enjoys having another man at your mercy. You’re reasonably intelligent, have creative ideas, and at least some kit and a place to play! You like to hear a man scream and beg for mercy, knowing he isn’t going to get any. But you also have a sense of humour, and don’t mind laughing with your tortured sub sometimes in the middle of a session. You know something about bdsm play and safety, or if you’re not already experienced, you’re willing to learn. If you fit the other aspects, I’ll even teach you! I’m familiar with the scene, and happy to introduce you around the clubs.

You know that bdsm may be a lifestyle choice, but its also a game! Its something that you and I will take seriously, but however seriously, its about doing things together that we’ve mutually agreed - I don’t have many limits - that we will both gain some pleasure from; even if that pleasure involves lots of screaming and pleading for mercy………..You can understand that I may want to be to all intents and purposes your slave, want you to push my limits and enjoy hurting and abusing me; that I’ll be happy serving your friends, and even being your prostitute if that floats your boat……..but I will only do all of that if I know you actually value and care for me, and I don‘t mean as a valued dog, even if we play that game! You’re sensible and sane, with a lust to play to the edge, and have some good, cruel, sexy fun with a helpless guy at your mercy.

It gets you hard, watching another guy fighting his straps and chains as you bring up the weals across his bare arse, or crank up the volts through his balls. Your pre-cum starts flowing thinking of having me naked on my knees in front of you while you watch the game, your cock being gently tongued until you’re ready for it to get really hard and shoot your load down my throat, like the cum and piss slut you want to make me. You like the idea of having your cock, balls and arse worshipped 20 hours a day, when I know otherwise I’ll soon be screaming in pain. You want to clamp my tits harder than I can bear so I’m squealing into my gag even while they’re going on, never mind when you flick them off with the cane 15 mins later. You want to look into my eyes through the plastic bag over my head as I choke for breath, while you’re pumping your cum up between my cheeks. You want to put me up naked against a wall, with my hands cuffed behind me and my ankles chained, and slap and punch my balls while you look into my frightened eyes.

Re sex. Me personally, I have a strong chastity fetish, so ideally it’ll at least amuse you, and hopefully turn you on, to lock up my slave cock and throw away the key. Better, take me for some serious chastity piercing to make sure I’m well secured. Basically, no cumming for me once you’ve got me, ever! Doesn’t mean you can’t play with and use my cock for your pleasure if you want; just make sure I don’t get to cum. Any slips ups, severe and genuine punishment for me. If part of your fun is to have me cum, then at least make it painful enough that it’s a part of the torture for me! I would however, stress that for me its not about locking my cock up and forgetting about it. Where’s the torment in that? You have to tease it, remind me its there and eager for what its not getting and never going to get again. A restrained cock that’s regularly brought erect and eager for a release it isn’t then allowed, is suffering a lot more than one that’s just locked away and never touched………

You of course, and anyone else you want to involve, get any sex you want. Oral, anal, any way you want it. My mouth is there to serve your arse, cock and balls, and to drink your cum or piss, and serve the sexual organs of anyone else, male or female, you want to use me. So are any other of my holes. Sex with a slave should almost always be rape……..

If you’re a straight man in a heterosexual relationship, you might also choose to use me solely as a torture slave, and neither you nor anyone else have sex with me. Seeing your female partner, and watching or hearing you screw her, would be pretty good torture in itself for a permanently locked up slave male. Obviously, that is all your choice; and your partner’s, if she’s domme.

So; got this far, huh? Interested then. Drop me a line or two; more if you have one of the two line profiles on here! Don’t ask me to contact your msn or private email until we’ve talked at least a bit on here first. A pic would be nice if there isn’t one on your profile, but you can send one later if you want. Do give me some idea of your situation, experience, and what you’re looking for from me, unless its all on your profile; then we can take it from there. I’d like to know you’ve read this, and you know what I’m looking for, and it agrees with at least most of what you want, so please head your reply ‘Read and understood your profile’. I promise to reply, as long as you don’t come across as a wanker, of which there are too many on all the sites. I’m genuine, and worth your effort if you are genuine. So what have you got to lose? Can’t you just see the veiled desire for you in my eyes; hear my heavy breathing as I reach out for you…………?