About me in general: I'm not a conventional person. I'm unorthodox in D/s, my life, and my lifestyle; if that's something which might interest you, I might be a good match for you--if you're more interested in people who are fairly normal, I am probably not going to be your cup of tea.
About my life: I used to be self-employed as a web developer, but have been largely transitioning away from that to work full time at promoting odd events and conventions. I'm also a writer, currently I'm self-publishing a book on D/s. I'm Discordian and pagan, though you don't have to be either to be a friend or companion.
However: I'm strictly polyamorous, and I fear I will not consider monogamous relationships.
I have a serious, full-time slave who is a primary partner. She is beautiful and intelligent and one of my best friends. She and I both take partners individually, so you wuoldn't be required to do D/s with her if you wanted to do it with me...but, contrariwise, if you're interested in a couple, she and I often work with people together. She has, though, quite a savage streak in her, I should mention.
-->Probably the best way to get an idea of the sort of D/s I practice is to check out my book. Feel free to ask me for a link to the website or a copy of the book. There's an excerpt, below.
Many submissives say that they want to give ?everything?.
Usually, they also seem to feel that ?everything? consists almost exclusively of things they don?t have. They want to give me an inhuman grace, an unquestioning obedience, an infinite knowledge of how to please me. In the meantime, they somehow feel that aspects of their actual lives and selves are boring or silly. Apparently, I?m not supposed to like who and what they are?I?m only supposed to like what they will be, some day, when they stop being so damn human.
You may have much more to give me than you would think. Little things that you do, little skills that you have, little quirks of your own?offer them to me. Yes, I may not love absolutely everything, but I will be proud of you for showing me that side of yourself. It?s difficult, it makes us vulnerable, to show off our humanities instead of our supposed perfections. It is a powerful act of trust.
My submissives will find me singing, sometimes badly, sometimes in public. I?ll tell truly poor jokes. I wear funny clothing sometimes.
Why? Because I?m secure in my dominance. I am just as dominant wearing fuzzy bunny slippers and a comfy bathrobe, carrying a cup of tea, as I would be in a leather jacket and pants, carrying my singletail. And so I intend to be comfortable, to do what I like and be who I am.
If I don?t want you to do certain things, rest assured, I?ll tell you.
But if you truly want to give yourself to me?then give me yourself?not some bondage novel?s conception of what you should be.
