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Happy 2010! It is a new decade and I hope it brings all the best to you - especially if you're searching for ... whatever you're searching for! SL |
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Good Sunday Afternoon, all - This journal started the year as a way for me to detail how my search was progressing. Well, as you can see, my search continues. It seems I will have to change my search criteria as I do not appear to be attractive to those I desire to communicate with. With that said, I'll consider how much of what I desire can be changed without compromising my ideals. Be well, all - SL |
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Wow, life has kept me really busy! I've sung the international premier of "Sing for the Cure" in London, bowled and won money in the National Women's tournament and am currently preparing to go to New York and sing in Carnegie Hall. Life has been good in most areas.
The only thing that could make life better is having someone to share all these exciting things with. Even if that never happens, I'll be happy no matter what!
Although I do have a suggestion for people seeking REAL, non-superficial connections - try introducing yourself to someone's mind first! Read their profile and find something compatible to use in your introduction. I sure can't hurt ... Be well and at peace, SL |
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Happy New Year, All!!!
A new year has dawned and with it a new ShadowsLap! Two Thousand Nine will be different for me in that I will make a conscious effort to meet more people for Coffee and Conversation. If you have viewed my profile, and - for whatever reason - did not contact me, I may send a message to ask what your feelings were about not making contact. All I ask is that you please be honest with me - I'm a big girl and you cannot hurt my feelings by telling me the truth. (Well, you can, but I asked for it ...)
Best of luck to all who continue to search for their One/one! SL |
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Merry Christmas! I pray, if you have not found your happiness this year, that 2009 will bring you to those people, places and things to fulfill your happiness. Be well all and I will see you next year! SL |
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10/11/08 - Thank you to all those who have been kind enough to send a message of greeting or response. My friend, the D-I-T, is becoming more focused on the one who is preparing to come meet him. Unfortunately, I find myself placing more emotional distance between us. It is very difficult to know I have found what I seek in a Dom - to know that I have been sent to the deepest subspace of my life (one that scared both of us) by One who possesses what I seek - and also to know that a relationship between us is untenable. Our life goals are far too different to allow either of us to hurt the other by engaging in a relationship which cannot be sustained. It's a tough place to be, but I wish him every happiness as I continue my search. Be well, all - SL |
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08-09-08 - Had an entertaining evening with some friends and my Dom-in-Training friend. It was music and dancing and lots of eye-candy, but entertaining, nontheless. |
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When I started this profile, I promised to respond to everyone who ventured to send a message to my InBox - until last night.
To the person who sent the message, "...If you're not serious about such a relationship, don't bother me." - please DO NOT misunderstand me when I say, "Since you chose to contact me first with that nonsense, stop wasting my time! IF you ever find the submissive doormat you appear to be looking for, feel free to talk to her like that - but I AM NOT THE ONE!"
That message goes to him and anyone else who thinks that type of communication will gain my attention. Try getting to know me before you slam the door on any opportunity you might have to meet someone unique and interesting. I promise you won't be disappointed! SL |
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08/06/08 - Greetings all! It's so nice to be back online. After suffering a HD crater 8 months ago, I've been kind of hit and miss in this place. Fortunately, I've continued to be involved in BDSM by helping a very good friend find his Dom wings and fly. Someone will be extremely fortunate to be part of his real life. He is patient, caring and incredibly talented as he learns his craft and becomes more secure. I'll be changing my profile soon because - while I still believe I am who I say I am, it seems it is difficult for others to believe. I'll be updating my pictures (my hair is longer) and experiences (deep sub-space, what a scary place to be without a Dom/me of your own). Check back in about a week for the updates. Until then, be well and at peace! SL |
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Welcome Spring! With the Easter Season past and summer looming in the very near future, I'm looking forward to many fresh, new experiences with interesting people. There's still a Starbucks on every corner! Be well and at peace ~ SL |
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Happy New Year All!!!
2008 is here and it is a chance to make changes. This is the year I hope to meet someone special. I will continue to meet others for coffee and perhaps soon I'll meet someone serious about having something longer term than a 15-minute BJ. Be well, all!
SL
Greetings, good people of CM! Fighting a PC with an attitude has kept me away for a very long time ... but I've continued to explore my BDSM identity with a newbie Dom. He learns ... I benefit from His learning curve. It is mutually beneficial ... I just don't happen to be what He is looking for in a LT/RT partner. Perhaps there is still One out there for me. Until then, I'll continue to go to our local munch and stay involved in the local community. Be well all! (07/05/08)
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I've read this profile over and wondered if I should change it to appeal to a wider audience. What I decided is - that THIS is me. I am a true paradox and the mold that was made for me - was broken after I emerged. I am still looking for a mutually satisfying relationship. It will feel and be very different from what most consider the "typical" Dom/me/sub relationship. When/if someone suitable reads and responds, perhaps we will find what we've been looking for in each other. If not ... I'll still be smart, funny, caring, full of life, and able to receive as well as deny my own orgasms. Be well, all. (10/2/07)
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If you read this profile and think it is fake or untrue, you might miss out on meeting one who is very unique. (7/28/07)
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Happy Holidays, all! Christmas is a few weeks away and then the new year will be here. Goodness, this year has passed quickly. I started this profile to be in a place of like-minded people so I could search for someone for a LTR. The most disappointing thing about being out here is making contact with people who just drop into the Twilight Zone - even when they say all they're looking for are friends. I have responded to every mail message I received (except the spam stuff). Most have been comical, some incredulous and some just downright insulting. However, those who seem to be real - that I would like to speak with further - are the ones who disappear the fastest. Which leads me to believe they are not who they say they are. So, I'll stay out here ... I just wish more people out here were real as the words in their profile. SL |
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It's late November and this year is just flying! Happy Thanksgiving to all who visit CM and enjoy the fruits of their labors. ;-)
Still looking for O/one for me ... not giving up hope ... although it is becoming a chore wading through the imposters who really don't know what they want. Be well, all and have a good weekend - SL |
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WOW!!! I never thought I'd encounter someone who claimed to be submissive, but pouted and threw a fit when they didn't get their way ... Doesn't sound very submissive to me. Plus that's not a great way to make an impression on someone you want to dominate you. Can anyone say TFTB? |
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Good bye September - Hello October! My this year is going by really fast. Still not found anyone special, but I'm trying to be patient.
I wish everyone a fantastic month and great costumes for Halloween. SL |
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Good evening, all! Here's wishing you have a great week. I'm looking forward to the start of a new season and hope my average will continue to climb as I recover from my broken leg. It's been 1 1/2 years so here goes nothing!!!!! |
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Happy Labor Day to all those who labor for their living! Enjoy your day off - if you have it off. Otherwise, I'll enjoy the day off for you! Be well, SL |
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Hello Collarme world!
I've been away for such a long time! Life has been very busy - just not relationshipwise. I've still not encountered an enchanting One/one. Oh well, At least attending munches allows me to have conversations with like-minded people. If you're in Big D and want to have coffee, let me know. Be well all - and I will try to hang out a bit more here. ShadowsLap |
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Happy February 2007 and to those who will be celebrating with someone(s) they love, Happy Valentine's Day! I didn't meet as many people in January as I had hoped, but I'll double the number of new people I meet in February. Strangest thing, though - it's hard to get people to meet for coffee ... Take care, all! |
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Welcome to 2007 and best wishes to all for a propserous year. To everyone who is searching for someone special ... Let's get over anything that's holding us back then get out there and meet more people! That's my personal promise for this year to help make it as fulfilling as I can! I'll be back! ;-) |
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