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Hetero Male Submissive, 43,  Metro Detroit, Michigan
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Thanks for taking the time to read my listing. First and foremost, Im an alpha male to family, friends, and folks at work. Im masculine (not metrosexual, or frilly - although I have no personal problem with folks that are), funny, witty, intelligent, mix well in any social setting, and a great conversationalist.

Im 61, 200 pounds, medium-athletic build, brown hair, and eyes. Most would describe me as a height-weight proportionate, attractive man. My vanilla interests are many, and varied.

I love sports (basically a sports nut!!), reading, working out, running, and just chilling out with family andor friends. Ive never been married, nor do I have any children. On to the BDSM portion of my listing.

Im seeking a FML (female led-relationship). Im seeking a MistressOwner, as Id like to be a submissiveslave. You can command, and I must obey...or punishment will occur. You are demanding, strict, beautiful, sexy, sadistic and powerful. Exerting power over me can include humiliation and punishment. Many activities involved in an FLR, that Id like to experience are...but not limited to being naked while you are clothed, kneeling at your feet, pering sex acts on demand, wearing a collar, being held in chains, having to obey you at all times, being in bondage so I cannot resist, being teased sexually, being whipped, being tortured, being caged, being leashed (led by a leash), being kept in a dungeon, addressing you as Mistress, being forced to submit sexually, being forced to service your friends or other lovers sexually, sexual chastity, wearing a chastity devise, prostate milking, and orgasm denial, being slapped in the face, spanking, genital torture, required to wear genital fetish wear, forced to wear a butt plug, etc...

You are sure of yourself, you talk down to me, commanding me and belittling me to remind me of my place. You may enjoy wearing sexy, tight, leather outfits, or business attire. Your power is enhanced by being able to control my orgasms. You deny me release, teasing me - sometimes painfully. You flaunt your power and control with whips, riding crops, canes, and many ways of restraining me.

You may have sex with others, while I am teased sexually and forced to watch then denied. You are in complete control of my sex and pleasure. I wantneed you to take control and am willing to submit, but need to become a much better servant by forced and very strict training. I desire humiliation as a teaching tool and am willing to beg and worship. My willingness is unlimited, I want you to use me in many ways. I want to be used as a servant, sex and for your sadistic desires. If you feel I may be what you seek, I look forward to your reply!













 Submissive Male

 Metro Detroit 


 6' 1"

 200 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Domme/Dom Couples

Female Led Couples


 Amusement Parks (Expert)


 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining

 Gambling (Expert)


 Renaissance Faires (Beginner)



 Camping (Expert)




 Yoga (Beginner)

 Being allowed to beg you for things (Expert)

 Being blindfolded (Expert)

 Being allowed to worship your body (Expert)

 You tying me up (Expert)

 Being allowed to see your breasts (Expert)

 Being allowed to wear your collar (Expert)

 Electrical Play

 Being massaged

 Being gagged by you (Expert)


 Being humiliated by you (Expert)

 You putting me on a leash

 You placing masks on me

 Being allowed to give you massages

 Being allowed to be obedient to you (Expert)

 You deciding when I'm allowed sexual pleasure

 Sensation Play (Expert)

 You deciding what I wear

 Being allowed to service you orally


 You binding me with plastic wrap

 Role Playing

 Sensory Play

 Being spanked by you

 Being allowed to see you in stockings

 You using a strap-on on me

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Being allowed to use a vibrator on you


 Board Games (Expert)

 Card Games (Expert)

 Comedy Shows


 Online RPGs (Expert)


 Conservative Politics




 Nutrition (Expert)


 Writing (Expert)

 Country Music

 Eighties Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Nineties Music


 Pop Music



 Rock Music

 Baseball (Expert)



 Football (Expert)



 Art Galleries (Beginner)

 Bar Hopping


 Going to the Opera (Beginner)

 Museums (Beginner)

 Being placed in a cage by you

 You disciplining me with a cane

 You controlling my male parts (Expert)

 Being allowed to see you in corsetry

 You punishing my gentials

 Rear End Play

 Being allowed to be your servant

 Gas Masks

 Hair Pulling

 Being allowed to do all of the housework (Expert)

 Mental Bondage

 Wax Play

 Science Fiction


 Female Sovereignty

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Alternative Music

 Classical Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Catholicism (Expert)

 Auto Racing


 Ice Hockey


 Corner Time


 Foot Worship

 Masks on Partner

 Suspension Bondage


 Curious About:

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community

 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play


 Speech Restrictions

 Cuckolding (Beginner)


 Modern Primitivism



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5/14/2017 10:38:53 AM
Happy Mother's Day to all the moms out there!! Without the wonderful women kmown as moms, none of us would be here!! ☺️

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