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Well, CM is apparently full of fakes, more's the pity - at least the ones I've had correspondence with...but maybe not all are like that. However, after encounters with two more who are, I get the feeling that one should take the subs not with a pinch of salt, but a ton of it.
Someone said slap up more detail on here, so here we go... I'm creative, intelligent, and intelligence is a quality I value deeply in a person, as well as the ability to be articulate - monosyllabic thinking is a major turn off. Be passionate, whether it's about D/s, music, books, life, politics. If it moves you, work up a head of steam about it. For me, having control is important. Not in any violent way, but in a look, a word....the greater the level of control, the better, although giving a good spank is also great fun, as are some other activities. But it all comes down to control, and for that there needs to be a click. You know what I mean. Without that, it's merely play. That has its place, but... Ideally, D/s should be part of a relationship, not the entire relationship at all. Laugh a lot, it's only life...and don't take yourself too seriously. I don't.
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