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| My ideal is a low-pressure sort of relationship, preferably where we communicate by messenger, text, email, or something in that vein. If you live in the KCMO area and are approximately close to my age I'm also up to meeting in person and growing a relationship the old-fashioned way, but it doesn't seem like there are many local people on here.
I am *very* bad at reading subtext, not particularly good at guessing what people want me to do (or when I've done something wrong), and do not have a significant amount of experience with BDSM. I want someone who can be clear and direct, who can tell me what I am expected to do and what I am expected not to do so that I can obey.
I will be obedient and faithful to the best of my ability, and if I do screw up I promise to be honest about it rather than trying to hide it.
As far as fetishes go, Diapers are my primary interest, though I've got many others and am very willing to try new things.
I'm a huge fan of rules, being given instructions that I have to follow and being forbidden from doing things. (These don't even have to be fetish related, though they can be, but simply having a checklist of rules that I'm ordered to obey is fantastic.) That being said, too many rules can feel constrictive.
I don't have too many hard limits besides significant physical harm or extremely public situations. If they do come up, we can address that.
I'm mostly looking for some online fun, but I'm not really interested in webcamming until we build up a relationship. I'm not *totally* opposed to it, but if it's all the same to you I'd prefer to hold off a bit. I can confirm identity and actions with photographs as needed, I don't want to be on a live webcam until we've known each other for a while. I've got trust issues, I suppose you could say, and until we build up some trust I would prefer to have a certain insulation. That's also why I don't have an actual photo on my profile, I'm just paranoid about leaving photos of myself lying around online.
Similarly, I won't send you money or gifts. Sorry if that's a dealbreaker for you.
I realize that these are a lot of demands up front for someone who identifies as a sub to make, but I've been burned before and I'm not looking to be burned again. I hope you can respect that, even if some of these limits are a dealbreaker for you.
I'd love to talk! Even if we aren't compatible, it's fun to meet new people.
(Also, I hope this intro hasn't scared everyone off!)
(By the way, despite the coincidental pun, my name is actually a reference to a psuedonym used by a character in a novel I enjoy. Fun fact!)
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I'm getting fucking sick of writing out messages and having them ignored without reading or even glancing at my profile. I get a no, that's fine, I even get not bothering to reply, but the amount of times I'm getting passed over without even the slightest chance is really starting to get on my nerves. |
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