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*READ MY ENTIRE PROFILE*

FOR ANY SUBS OR SLAVES WHO ARE SERIOUSLY THINKING ABOUT EMAILING ME DO NOT DO IT BEFORE READING MY PROFILE AND FEW JOURNALS...IF I TAKE THE TIME TO WRITE IT TO HELP YOU MAKE A DECISION TO EMAIL ME OR NOT THEN I REALLY EXPECT FOR YOU TO READ IT...IF I LOOK AT WHO HAS VIEWED ME AND YOU ARE NOT ON THERE THEN I REALLY AM NOT PAYING MUCH ATTENTION TO YOUR EMAIL...I WRITE A PROFILE AND ADD UPDATES TO MY JOURNAL FOR SLAVES AND SUBS TO SEE EXACTLY WHAT I WANT AND EXPECT AND TO SEE IF THEY FALL IN THAT CATEGORY...THIS IS TO SAVE YOU AND ME TIME...SO TAKE THAT INTO CONSIDERATION, CAUSE IF NOT IT JUST REALLY IRRITATES THE HELL OUT OF ME WHEN I READ YOUR EMAIL...
GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR SEARCH!!!


Maybe I should explain something before you email me or reply to any emails I may actually send. I am from the South which means, yes, I have manners. I am soft spoken for the most part and I enjoy being feminine in looks and actions. If me sending you a very nice email will bother you then do not respond nor send me one to begin with. I am not planning to be rude to you online, what's the point? Also in my own home I am a polite person and will give my demands and wants in a soft spoken tone and expect them to be followed to the letter. But NEVER make the mistake of thinking because I am polite and mannerly that I am a soft Mistress and will overlook things. I will NOT have disobedience or brattiness in a slave. I do understand the need to test limits at the beginning and will deal with that swiftly and I understand mistakes which will be dealt with but I don't expect five years down the road to have a brat on my hands that just won't learn. I also may seem a little cruel or sadistic at times. But again I am a "nice" person on here for the most part and if you email me you need to definitely be on your best behavior and as mannerly as possible. I am not so much into the formal protocol that I see so much when emailing but I expect politeness above all else. I hope this gives you an idea of what I expect on here.


I am looking for a FEMALE slave ONLY at this time. She should be between 18 and 25 but I am willing to go slightly older for the right slave. I am NOT looking for anyone to relocate to me at this very moment. I am wanting to talk to slaves online that might fit into my home easily and then move to talk on the phone. Eventually meet in person after enough time and eventually move the slave to Va sometime next year...more than likely the end of next year. I am in no hurry for this and want to take my time to find the perfect complement to my home.

Now as to what I am looking for specifically. My slave must be able to hold her own in a conversation when I want and also be quiet if I say so. She will never HAVE to work and will always be taken care of extremely well. Financial security will never be an issue. Now that's not to say we may not go out to a strip club one evening and I have her dance that night...more for my pleasure than hers. There is also a college in town for those that really want to pursue an education...I could be convinced to allow that if the desire was truly there. I also plan to have some hobbies for my slave to learn and enjoy. I stay home and do not have to go in to an office type of job so my slave will basically be with me 24/7 to take care of me and my needs. I will allow time for hobbies, schooling, and such as I think it's necessary and as my slave earns it through great service to me. It's also important that she can conduct herself well in social situations if needed.

I also want a slave who is intelligent and always looking to learn more and not just in the lifestyle but outside of it. Reading is a great hobby for whoever may come to me. I may even give reading assignments to my slave as time progresses not only to open her up to more but so I can discuss things with her on an intellectual level.

She will work out with me on a weekly basis and learn to dance certain styles as I teach her or have her taught. She will also travel several times a year with me. I tend to stay in warmer states or countries some months of the year and then back in Va the rest of the year. I also take several long weekend trips to wherever I feel like it at the time.

I am laid back for the most part. If a slave is looking to be involved in scenes or go to clubs catering to the lifestyle then I am not the one for her. If a slave is looking to constantly be taken out nightly or even weekly to party then again she is not for me. I enjoy sitting on my porch, listening to music, and having a drink. My days are very laid back and enjoyable for me.

For my slave it will be somewhat relaxed but at the same time there will be a schedule. My slave will be expected to do what I want when I want for my pleasure not her own. She may be in chastity for weeks at a time but pleasuring me when I want her to. I have a slightly sadistic side, even though I don't see my slave ever hanging from the ceiling, I do like to paddle and bring small whimpers of pain at times for my amusement. She will be my property and have my limits(which I will be glad to share after talking on here). I will be more than willing to discuss any limits a slave may have but will be very upfront about what I want and expect so there are no misunderstandings.

Now know this, as nice as I can be and as laid back as I am, I am also strict to the point I will not have blatant disrespect or disobedience from a slave. I will punish swiftly and to the extreme I deem necessary. I see my slave as a valuable piece of property and nothing more. I will want my slave to be happy and enjoy being in my home but not to the point that I will put a slave's feelings above my own. I will enjoy going out and about with my slave in tow and hopefully her enjoying herself as much as I am but I will still expect her to know her place as my slave no matter where we are. There is a need for discretion in public unless we are travelling to other places then not as much discretion will be needed.

Another important thing my slave will need to know is she will wear what I want her to only. It may be corsets and skirts at times or it may be a daily uniform some days. I do not like my slave to walk around nude like so many do on here. I prefer a little modesty and sexiness at the same time.

Basically, for the most part I am truly searching for a LADY'S MAID. By that I don't mean someone to clean the house, there is more than one person who does that already so no need for that(I will state that my slave will have some domestic duties to keep the maids out of certain areas of my home, as in the dungeon in the basement). But most duties will be getting me ready for the day or if I go out on dates, manicures, pedicures, massages, brushing my hair and fixing it, etc. And if you have experience in any of these areas that is a HUGE PLUS. If not, you will be taught and learn the right way to do it.

I am not looking for anyone with children. I am not looking for anyone with a husband or boyfriend. I am hoping this will turn into long term and yes there will be a trial period so all included can decide this is what they want before anything permanent. I am not a lesbian but do not mind lesbian slaves contacting me...but know even though I would allow certain limits with lesbians and men there are other things I would expect no matter what. I am more than willing to expound on that more through email.

After talking for quite some time I would be more willing to share more pics with you. But don't expect a portfolio due to needing a little discretion on my end.

There are other things that would need to be known about me and my household but just too much to put on here. So ask and know I will share anything that will have to do with you and your service to me.

If you are outside of the age limit or the wrong sex know your emails go straight to bulk mail which I do check on occasion but NEVER reply to unless it is something that literally makes me stop and take a second look.

Good luck to all!!
10/14/2007 9:55:27 AM
*A FEW UPDATES*

First, I apologize for my age not being correct on here. I was talking to a sub and when age came up she wanted to know why it was different on my profile and it was just an error that I have never noticed since making the profile. My apologies for that. I am not 30, I am 28.

Second, I have a small irritation with those that refuse to just exchange emails for a day or two to see if there is even enough interest there before jumping on yahoo messenger. I have no aversion to chatting on messenger and do on occasion but it is very annoying to go straight to messenger and within the first few messages realize that it's just not meant to be and then I have to try and get rid of you, and no offense to all, but some of you just don't take "no, thank you" very well at all on here. I prefer to ask and answer a few specific questions through email and if it still sounds interesting then move to something else. If that offends you then so be it and good luck. If me saying let's wait a day for that makes you think I'm a man then again so be it and good luck. I have no issue with proving myself to anyone that I feel is a good candidate for what I'm looking for. BUT you female slaves and subs that are worried about men pretending to be women need to realize that I have the same problems with men pretending to be slaves or subs. I am NOT going to hand out my messenger and email information to someone just cause they throw a hissy and want to call me a man. I know who and what I am and again, don't mind proving it, but if you can't have the respect for me and my privacy and caution that I have for you and yours then we are not meant to be so I just saved you a lot of time and trouble on here. You're welcome. *smiles*

Third, I am not looking for any male or female slaves out of the US. I will be more than happy to explain why. I am NOT paying for relocation from another country. And if you can't manage to come and stay in the states legally forever then that doesn't interest me either. Now after stating both of those reasons, if you can VISIT for a week or two LEGALLY and with your own FINANCES then I am open to talking to see if we "click" on here. If so I would allow a visit as long as all I had to do was put you up while you are here and we learn about each other. At the end of the visit, you go back home and then if we continue to email and both want it permanently then you will be invited here permanently. You will still have to get here again on your own and after that I will take care of you and anything to do with you while under my care and guidance. I know that may sound harsh to some but there are just too many scammers out there and I don't have time to figure out who's real and who's not when it comes to those out of the country.

NOW, for you MALE slaves out there...know I am NOT looking for a live in male slave, I have one that I don't plan on replacing...ever. I am looking for a female live in, but not even planning on that anytime soon.
BUT, if you want to take the time to email and know you are still going to my bulk mail and know I will get to you EVENTUALLY, feel free. I MIGHT possibly be willing to have a few male slaves that are in the area or even some that would relocate to the area and that could support themselves financially but be owned by me. Yes, it would be a daily thing, not just once a week visit from me or as I had time, I take this very seriously. To be clear on that it would definitely be a 24/7 relationship for all of us. That is also nothing I am looking for immediately or not even in the next 6 months to be honest, but within the next year, definitely.

Well, to more enjoyable things. Have I mentioned that I am working on a dungeon in the basement? I am working on adding walls and it already has the wonderful stone that gives it that nice medieval feel to it. Once I add a nice cell in the corner and chains in various locations on the walls and in the floor it will be perfect. Don't forget the nice torturous furniture. I can see stocks, maybe a table to stretch the body out so that every inch is accessibly by me. Yuummmyyy. I have my male slave to have down there but would love to have some more "playmates" eventually to just use for a good weekend or so. And of course the female slave I hope to add to my home one day. It is so exciting.  *Smiles*
9/26/2007 8:21:18 AM
*UPDATE*

Ok, a few things I would like to add to my profile here.

*PICS*
I am not a pic collector nor do I ever ask for nude pics from those I am just talking with on here. BUT if you can send more than one pic with one of your emails(even if it's after we have exchanged several) that would be greatly appreciated. And yes that is even if you have pics on your profile. I am much more comfortable if you can do that. It shows you really being who you are and not someone posing as another.

Please do not assume you know anything about me or my home life when reading my profile or my emails. I am very honest about how I live and yes for those that are respectful enough I can PROVE anything I write on here. I have no problems talking on the phone, sending pics of me or my home, or even moving to web cam after a little bit of time. I am assuming you can do the same.

I am looking for a slave, but yes, for those that have asked about being a sub, I would be more than willing to talk to you and discuss limits and if you would like to come as a sub. I do feel there is a difference and would be more than happy to discuss that with you but I also feel a true sub can be molded into exactly what I want over time.

I am actually pretty nice...most of the time 'wink'.