I have found that after talking in the chat rooms, conversing with others that have sent me ALT mail and actually visiting some of the people in the community up in Seattle that I needed to revise my profile. I still very much believe that dominating me does not mean that I want a male or female with an ego complex. I feel that too many in this world that claim to be a Dom believe that just by saying they are a Dom that they have a right to be respected. Dom’s should remember that the submissive has the ULTIMATE control. He/she can ALWAYS say no. D/s for me is a place I go in my mind. What brings me there is the environment, the mood, the toys, and the individual. When I drop into sub space the place(s) I go tend to vary. Actually not only the *space* I go to but also I find that different needs are being met by different people. Some times I am soft and tender after play and I want to be held, some times I just want to be left alone. And a few times I have been feral. Catharsis scenes can often bring out intense emotions. I have experiences all of these states and more as a top and as a bottom. ********************************************************************************************************************** There needs to be an established foundation of friendship. Especially to understand the other’s needs, wants, desires. To understand me, you need to talk to me. Not play me. I am married; there are some boundaries there that would need to be met. I am poly. And I have been poly for 13 years. I am not looking for a mate… I have one. I am looking for people that I can explore and expound upon my more primal desires. I want a close knit of friends that can be a part of my world of creativity and expression. ************************************************************************************************************************** I enjoy movies, good food, evening walks under the moon, dancing in the rain, hearing and writing poetry, conversation and theater. I also enjoy horseback riding, camping and art of almost any type. Photography is also one of my interests, I have seen some amazing work from local photographers expanding there creative interests. I am an enjoyable person to spend time with, and can converse on almost any topic. I am above average in looks, but my personality shines through more than my looks can account for. I have a very strong personality. I am one of those women that is a submissive by choice, not by default. I enjoy talking about the world of BDSM in general and love trying out new things. I also really enjoy learning new things. There are a lot of events every year where you can go as a newbie or an experienced player and learn about all of the different things Poly and BDSM entails.



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Intelligence is a must for me. I prefer multi faceted individuals. After all, the greatest sex organ is the mind and I wish for you to stimulate it.

I am self-sufficient therefore I expect you to be as well.

I am not interested in anyone who is just "in it" for the sex.

You must also be poly.

If at your core you know that you are looking for that right one to spend the rest of your monogamous life with, I am not it.

Therefore monogamous geared individuals need not apply.