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LadyKim13

I am a spontaneous, loving, caring, humorous, adventurous, complex, somewhat demanding and sadistic, full-figured Lifestyle Mistress living in London. I am also an ordinary person with friends, family, many interests, emotions, problems, good sides and bad sides. I've been in this lifestyle for 8 years, I have a lot of experience and I continue to grow every day. I am also a semi pro-Domme, so if you are interested in a session, you can contact me through my skype below. I say semi pro, because I consider Myself to be a lifestyler first. And I just do sessions once in a while, it's not my day-job and I would never want it to be 'my job'. I am looking for a serious long term relationship. The vanilla-click is very important, having fun together, doing things, build a life, support each other, care for each other, ... Generally I want a relationship based on equality, even though I can be demanding and dominant in the relationship, I sure don’t want a 24/7. Vanilla-stuff and being each others equals in life also has it means. But if it comes to intimacy and sexuality, being a Mistress is a big part of me. It’s who I am, and I need to be able to life this in a relationship. I’ll desire you to surrender, I’ll play you and push your limits. Let’s say in the bedroom. Althrough I see no problem in teasing you or torturing you while we’re making diner in the kitchen. But I need a man, with a spine in daily life, someone I can count on, someone I can build a life with. Someone who can be My equal in vanilla-life. I’m dominant and sadistic, for me bdsm is my way of expressing and experiencing intimacy and love. But that's only part of who I am, I'm also a regular versatile woman, with all the ordinary needs. And both the bdsm section if all else is equally important. I am looking for someone who has humor, is sweet, and is open, masochistic and submissive (although it is only in the bedroom), but also responsible, and able to move forward in live. Some of my D/s interests: servitude, complete adoration, masochism, CBT, nipple torture, boots worship, foot worship, breath play, massages, orgasm control, strap-on play, chastity devices, discipline, subtile humiliation, electrical play, candle wax, bondage, cages, leather, body worship, pussy worship, trampling, whips, canes, cuckolding, rimming ... (Not all will develop in a particular relationship, these are just examples) but also tenderness, honesty, respect and a very good communication. Some of my vanilla interests: meeting up with friends or family, deep sea diving, indoor skydiving, skiing, fitness, walking, my friends and family, my dog, my snake, kids, going out for diner, movies, music, dry sarcastic humor, comedy shows, deep conversations. I like to discover new things, meet new people. I love other cultures and traveling. I rarely take part in the community-life, much less than years ago. My friends and immediate surroundings know my lifestyle and half of my friends are in the lifestyle. I'm pretty open and honest where I can, but of course discrete where needed.