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Updated 7/25/16
I've been on CollarSpace for several years. Through this site I was lucky to find years of power exchange interaction with another person on this site. Luckily we live within 3 hours and can meet and go to events and such together. I am in a primary relationship, and I have been seeking a female submissive/slave for a long term relationship, that sees herself interacting bi-sexually according to my will. Unfortunately I have not met that woman who I think could be a long-term commitment. I'm very much into etiquette, protocol, servitude, and all things kinky!. My preference is vain I realize, but I prefer someone who is reasonable fit, takes care of them self to remain attractive and alluring to my appetite, and whose kinks are rather broad matching mine.
Things I love - power exchange. I really get off when someone truly has that seed within them that runs into deep submission. Though I can negotiate playing with 'bottoms or switches', my preference is genuine submission. I do not like to 'force' submission, in that case I feel used to 'Dominate' someone, and force isn't particularly one of my fetishes. As well I'm very much into S&M. Interacting with someone who like to push their limits is also an attraction to me. How much will you give me, to feed my appetite? Servitude, and motivation are attractive traits for one who desires a deeper more ongoing connection of D/s with me. I have served my own household as the head of this house, and I expect to be served and not be serving with those I interact with. The ability to cook and be clean is important, because that is the environment I find comfort in, and I'm not going to lower my own standards. Financially, I won't support another. We are a household, and I would expect any interaction would mean you could provide for yourself financially. So the two things I cannot and will not provide, is being a sugar mama (your financial freedom) and a ring on your finger (marriage contract).
I mentioned I'm pretty broad in my likes.... here is more. I do love photography, in that taking photos of things we do secures a lot of memories. I love the idea of extremes - like serving nude, being cages, but I recognize the total impracticality of such fetish dreams. I do live in a household where 24/7 nudity isn't at all practical - not only are there vanilla people here on occasion, the temperature isn't conducive to that most months of the year where I live.
I live about 2 hours from Sacramento, 1 hour from Modesto, and 3 hours from San Francisco. I do expect you to travel to my home in the Sierra Foothills, and be able to host my visits our of area if I were to visit you. I am poly, and I will not consider someone who is doing this without the absolute consent of their primary partner.
A letter of introduction will get you a reply, one liner messages are a waste of my time. I am very approachable in most cases, and would love to hear about you and your kinks if you see possibility to explore interacting on some level.
Lady Diana
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