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Pan Female Submissive, 36,  Port Orchard, Washington
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Is there nobody who reads the whole profile? DAMN! Please stop wasting my time with futile emails/IM's. If you are truly interested, please read my profile completely & take what i say seriously. I don't have the time, patience, or energy to expend on games. You must be LOCAL (below 30 miles from me) to have any chance of meeting me, as well as have a pic with your profile. Also, I AM NOT A DOMME OR MISTRESS!!! Thank you.


I'm a red-headed, submissive, Pagan, Curvacious BBW who is a single mom (2 boys), is gainfully employed (I work A LOT), is independent, intelligent, strong, funny, spontanious, flirtatious, open-minded, and sexy. I enjoy meeting new people who have similar interests but I also like learning about our differences.

If You are looking for an air-headed barbie doll with implants, keep on steppin! I'll never be skinny so if You can't handle a thick girl with brains, move along!

I enjoy playing pool, dancing, concerts, movies, camping, hiking, 4x4'ing, motorcycles, BBQ's, swimming, tattoos & piercings (I have both!), STILETTO shoes (fetish?), MUSIC, traveling, gardening, reading, chatting, 4:20 friendly, and so much more.

I DON'T ENGAGE IN HEAD GAMES so if You contact me, keep it REAL!

I don't enjoy or want bigots, haters, players, cheaters, slobs, dead-beats, abusers, drunks, liars, thieves, tweekers, control freaks, trifling bitches, pompous douchebags, jealous assholes, arrogant pricks, or any combination of the afore-mentioned. If you are any of the above, don't waste my time.

I'm NOT, repeat NOT, into humiliation, scat, watersports, fisting, choking/breath play, suspensions, face slapping, animals, elderly, diapers, and any other such degrading (in my opinion) activities. I also don't ride "bareback" for ANYONE. These are non-negotiable hard limits. I'm not judging you; it's just not my thing.

Also, I'm not going to automatically address you as "Master", "Mister", "Ma'am", "Mistress" or anything of that sort. The same goes for you calling me "Pet", "Slave", or anything of the kind. I don't know you nor do I have any reason to respect, look up to, or fear you. If you must call me anything other than my name then make it "girl" and nothing else. Just because i may correspond with You, doesn't mean You own me.

I'm in search of a serious, experienced Dom who is completely up-front & honest about what He expects but is also patient & understanding of my work schedule, family status, & time constraints.

Please keep in the forefront of Your mind, if You're in search of a LTR, that i'm a "package deal". I am, and forever will be, a Mother above all else. If You can't handle that fact, then happy hunting.

I'm not willing or able to relocate. I am a submissive, not a slave, so i retain my right of choice & use safety words. I'm also not interested in being an "online" slave (what's the point in that?), although I'm not adverse to online "friends" or webcam play. I'm not looking for a husband, father figure, or savior.
I don't believe in the concepts of monogamy or marriage, but do expect trust, honesty, and respect from any relationship.

I desire trustworthy, honest, down-to-Earth, open-minded Friends who can carry on an intelligent & funny conversation, as well as swing a mean whip!

I'm not opposed to being a primary playmate or part of a harem as long as everyone involved is DRAMA-FREE, practices good hygiene, & follows safe sex protocols (Unless You have a body to die for, put a condom on it!).

I am in search of a long-term arrangement, but not a 24/7 commitment. Keep in mind that i am a willful, bratty, proud, "pain-slut' who will pout, stomp, cuss, & struggle to receive that which i desire. I need to be taught proper etiquette & patience with the appropriate degrees of discipline & guidance that will make me into someone a Dominant will look upon with pride, amusement, & raw lust.

I do have a BDSM checklist available upon request and can provide references.
My slave registry number is
000-156-933 .

Thank You for Your time and consideration.

PS- PLEASE have a pic on Your profile or added with an initial contact email.


Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects. You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.












 Submissive Female

 Port Orchard 


 5' 10"

 250 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Dominant male

Switch Women


A Poly Household

 Lives For:


 Clubbing (Expert)

 Fine Dining

 Movies (Expert)

 Renaissance Faires

 SCA (Beginner)

 Dancing (Expert)

 Horseback Riding

 Scuba Diving (Beginner)

 Collars (Beginner)

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Being Massaged (Beginner)


 Public Play

 Spanking (Expert)

 Whips (Expert)

 Horror Movies (Expert)

 Science Fiction (Expert)

 Body Art (Expert)


 Tattoos (Expert)




 Paranormal Phenomena




 Eighties Music


 Heavy Metal Music

 Punk Rock Music



 Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Modern Paganism

 Horse Racing



 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries


 Shopping (Expert)




 Walking (Expert)


 Yachting (Beginner)


 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Fire Play

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Leashes (Beginner)

 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Modern Primitivism (Expert)

 Clothing Selection

 Outdoor Bondage (Beginner)

 Role Playing

 Rubber Fetish (Beginner)

 Cartoons (Expert)

 Comedy Shows


 Historical Shows


 Web Surfing


 Astrology (Beginner)

 Candle Making

 Cooking (Expert)





 Pottery (Beginner)


 Astronomy (Beginner)




 Nihilism (Expert)



 Cuck Options (Beginner)

 Victorian Lifestyle

 Alternative Music

 Blue Grass

 Classical Music

 Folk Music

 Hip Hop Music

 New Wave

 Nineties Music



 Feng Shui



 Body Building



 Bar Hopping (Expert)

 Musical Theater




 Electrical Play

 Hoods (Beginner)

 Speech Restrictions

 Vibrators (Expert)

 Card Games


 Online Chatrooms

 Puzzle Games

 True Crime

 Alternative Medicine

 Blogging (Beginner)

 Nutrition (Beginner)

 Political Activism


 Electronica / EDM

 Industrial Music


 New Age Music

 Opera Music










 Anal Play

 Breast Play (Expert)


 Shibari (Beginner)

 Suspension Bondage (Beginner)

 Board Games

 TV News

 TV Sports


 1950s Lifestyle

 EMO Music

 Pop Music

 Show Tunes


 Auto Racing


 Curious About:

 Snorkeling (Beginner)

 Tai-Chi (Beginner)

 Body Worship (Beginner)

 Cages (Beginner)


 Corner Time

 Corsetry (Beginner)

 Eye Contact Restrictions (Beginner)

 Local BDSM Community (Beginner)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Medical fetish play

 Munches (Beginner)

 Obedience Training (Beginner)


 Orgasm Control (Beginner)

 Maid / Butler Service

 Oral Service

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Strap-Ons (Beginner)

 Theatrical Scenes

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Wax Play



 Soap Making (Beginner)


 Libertarian Politics

 Female Sovereignty

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Polyamory (Beginner)

 Swinging (Beginner)

 Druidism (Beginner)

 Hinduism (Beginner)

 Taoism (Beginner)








 Conservative Politics



 Country Music







 Working Out

 Hard Limits:





 G-spot Service

 Genital Punishment

 Erotic touch

 Foot Worship

 Sensation Play


 Romance Novels




 Sky Diving

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