Black Male Dom with 12+ years BDSM experience and over 17 years experience within "alternative lifestyles".

I am here (this site) to find BDSM play partners - and to perhaps find someone suitable to develop a long term relationship with. To share knowledge, life experiences, pleasures, and friendships. YOUR personal sexual preference or gender identity does not matter to me - what floats my boat is open minded, real people.

"Real". Let's talk about that for a moment... I do not do cyber, cam, or IM chat, etc. The internet and by extension, my computer are tools to be used to facilitate, coordinate and plan meetings with people who are interesting and interested in meeting me in real time/space. If you contact me, I will respond. Even if just to say, "thank you, but no thanks". If I don't respond, there is a problem - my computer is dead, or I am (most likely, I'm out of town - just give me a few days (LOL). However, you WILL get a response. I was raised that way...

If you receive a message from me and are not interested and for whatever reason are too lazy to respond in the negative, at least block my profile so that we can quit the "who's viewing me" dance. You won't hurt my feelings.

I am neither pushy or desperate. I am not here to "collect" friends.

I will not demand honorifics unless that dynamic is negotiated.

I will not compete for your affections or charms. Chemistry is either there or it is not...

I will challenge your thought process (with respect and aforethought).

I do play at a different level/type of intensity that many others do not.

I do enjoy pleasures of the flesh.

I do not make apologies for the things and types of play I enjoy.

I do think before I speak or take action.

I am a "thinking" Dom. If you can't (or won't) think, we are not a match.

I do not take myself too seriously (or least try not to). I do enjoy laughter.

I find it humorous that sometimes people are intimidated by me. I tend to be very easy-going.

Experienced in Sex Magick/Tantric principles & "energy play", massage, waxing, fire cupping, voice commands/orgasm control, bullwhip play, OTK (over the knee) spanking, grappling/overpowering, sensory deprivation/overload, and other types/forms of play.

I work well with other Doms/Dommes/Switches and am personally not "ego" driven.

I've been honored to share my thoughts, knowledge and techniques by giving demonstrations to various groups and friends.

I have references available from Tampa FL, Jacksonville FL, Ft. Myers/Sarasota FL, Orlando and Augusta, GA areas. *** If you are traveling and would like to arrange a scene, let me know. I have done the same when away from home on family, friends or work related travels. ***