Dominance

Welcome to a corner of my world. I assume you are here because you have a yearning, interest or desire in the D/s lifestyle. Allow me to share my thoughts of what I am looking for:

I would like a lady who enjoys her submissive side because she recognizes who and what she is and yearns to have a relationship that complements and completes this desire. She will feel as if her life is whole with a Dominant man in her life.

I want her to submit to me out of the respect and strength she sees in my character, and not fear of reprisal.

I want to have a lady who recognizes just because she has submissive tendencies and desires, this does not preclude her from having thoughts, ideas and opinions of her own. Many men do not want a lady who can think for herself in an independent manner. I will expect it from her.

The lady should be mentally, physically, financially, and emotionally stable. I do not wish to rescue anyone, anymore.

She will also have to have a mind and an intellect which will be able to not only carry on a conversation, but introduce new and novel ideas to the relationship as time marches on. I believe a relationship should be a synergistic one. . .I do not wish to do all the thinking for both of us.

I want her to understand the most erotic, sensual, and sexual thing a person has is their mind. Once the mind is captured, a sensual or sexual, or erotic moment can happen anywhere, any time with just a glance, a soft caress or a whispered word. Once the mind is captured, there is not a physical restraint which tethers the body that will be stronger.

I want a lady who enjoys her femininity, sensuality and sexuality. I never want to be with a lady who feels she "must" be sexually receptive towards me as if it is a chore or a duty. I want your sexual participation because you are a sexual human being. Dressing for me in outfits I enjoy seeing you in will be something I will expect you to do. I want a lady who has a sense of adventure. . .who understands an opportunity may exist in the back of a van in a rest area on a road trip, or a secluded part of a hiking trail, or perhaps with her sundress being flipped up at a moment's notice.

I also want her to know and recognize I wish for her efforts to be a perfect lady in public. . .and to be her whorish best in bed.

You are a human being. You should have wants, desires, aspirations and goals. It is my desire to have you grow, mature and become more than you ever thought possible. You must understand in accomplishing this, I will look after you, and guide you. . .and demand from you things you may not wish to do or understand at the time. You must put your trust in me. When you do, we will accomplish more than you ever envisioned.

Things I will not tolerate:

I believe it is the responsibility of both partners to take care of themselves as best they can for the good of each other. If you are not trying to be as healthy as you can be, then how can you give all of yourself to your partner when you, yourself are not 100%?

To this end, I will not tolerate someone who smokes. When you are doing something that you know is endangering your health, how very unfair it is to your partner. To knowingly, day after day, poison your body with cigarettes, is something I cannot understand. If it catches up with you, and you do get very sick, not only are you unable to take care of him in the manner you wish to, but he suffers too, feeling your pain and illness as his own. Is this what you want to do. . .have the man you cherish, in pain? This man, the one you've been serving and loving, will suffer the consequences of your illness because you neglected to take care of yourself. I find the fact that you are intentionally inhaling toxic substances intolerable.

I will not consider someone who does drugs for the same reason.

I will not consider someone who is very overweight and unfit. Part of who I am is an active person. I have many, many interests that include athletics both indoors and outdoors. If you cannot walk up a couple flights of stairs or go on a mile or two hike without severe repercussions from the strain it puts on you, I am not interested. This goes hand in hand with a previous statement I made on this web page. You must try to be as healthy as you can be. I exercise 5 days a week. If you are far out of shape, or overweight, then you will not be able to keep up with me.

The two of us.

I believe a submissive lady should be cherished and appreciated for who and what she is. A submissive lady is not a doormat nor a brainless puppet on a string. She looks up to her man for the respect and strength she feels from his essence of his inner being. . .and he looks over her, guides her and protects her. . .making her feel cherished for all that she gives to him. I believe the worst thing a submissive lady can have happen to her is to hear the words "You have displeased me" from her man. . .

And she will do everything in her power to make the situation right for him. . . such is her nature.

When a submissive lady knows her man has her best interests at heart, she will not only desire to do his bidding, but ache and crave to do so. Hearing the words "you have done well, I am pleased" will make her glow....her entire being will darn near tingle and revel in the fact she has made her Master happy.

About me:

I am 5'9" tall, 175 pounds, no hair, athletic build, brown eyes and I've been told a nice smile. I was born in the 9th month, 20th day, of 1960. I'll let you do the math.