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GentleMiss4Sissy

Hello there little ones.

I am a dominant, feminine, mistress in search of my loving pussy-whipped submissive man. Important is that I am, in fact, searching for a man. My username sissy but that doesn't mean "wants to be a woman" or "wears women's panties". It means a submissive man who does not fight me when I put my foot down and tell him what's what. It means that if I say I want X for dinner then we have X for dinner, no discussion as to what you want instead.

I'm not going to lock my man in a cage, or keep a collar on him. I find such things silly... so silly. A real relationship doesn't need those thing. That's not to say I don't enjoy incorporating them into play from time to time, but if I wanted a dog I'd get a dog. I have no desire to keep a man locked up.

I work for a living so I am not home most of the day. In the beginning of our relationship we won't be living together of course, however in the long run we would be. I would like a man who either is willing to eventually become my househusband (stays at home full time) or who will be working a part time job so that he has time to cook breakfast in the morning and have dinner ready when I get home. He is not my servant, we dine together at the table and he listens about my day. He should remember that I am more important than him and that my day and concerns are more important than his. I will, of course, allow him to tell me about his day after I've had time to relax and get things off my chest. Another important thing is that I am in charge of all things. If we end up living together then I will have sole control over the finances of the household and you will receive an allowance from me to buy groceries, clothes, etc. I'm not a bitch, if you need something simply ask for my approval and I'd likely give you the money for it, but my permission is needed. I won't go into every little detail, but that's the basic gist of the relationship I seek. I don't need a lapdog, just a submissive man who respects that I'm in charge in all things.

Now for sex. I enjoy sex and prefer to have it frequently. However I choose when we have it, and will always make the first move. If, (especially early in the relationship), you feel the need to "make the first move" then that's a one way ticket to getting left in the middle of no where and walking your way home. If I want to fuck I'll reach over an grab your dick to get you up. If I want to kiss I'll lean in and take my kiss. If we progress into a real long term relationship then we can discuss your kinks, your desires, your likes, your dislikes... and I'll keep them in mind. I enjoy sex most when we both enjoy sex, but sometimes I want my man to eat my pussy and then fuck me and just don't feel like giving him head. Sometimes I actually enjoy giving a blowjob (especially when his hands are tied above his head). So if you're a guy who wants blowjobs every day, expect to be disappointed, but that doesn't mean you're going to be some pathetic cuckold who never gets to get off. I enjoy cuddling both after sex and without sex. Often as not after a long day's work and some dinner I want to cuddle on the couch. This does not mean sexy time unless I want it to. You should be prepared to curl up on the couch and cuddle pretty often and it not end in sex. I find many guys are pathetic and seem to think that physical contact = sex. If this is you prepare to be disappointed.

Now, on to you... I would prefer someone smaller than myself, or at least shorter. I'm 5'7" 140 and in good shape. I'm not turning anyone down just because they are 5'9" 180", but being honest if I could find a guy who is 5'6" or shorter that would be ideal. I like to look down when I look my men in the eye, not up. I also have a small and shallow pussy and want a small dick. 4" is plenty, and 3" is ideal. I know, I know, you rockstars out there with 8" cocks think you know about pleasing women because you pack a massive amount of meat... but really it just hurts. Anything above 5" or so hurts. When I masturbate I use a small, little, 2" toy. Sex for me is best when the man is smaller and plays with my clit during, rather than massive and slamming it into me as fast as he can porn star style. You should also not be obese. A little bit of chub is ok, (I prefer skinny) but muscular is out. So no body builders and no fatties. I don't care about race, but I've found in the past that white boys are the most compliant when given orders. I've never had an asian man but I know they are skinny, short, and typically have smallish dicks so I would definitely be down to try one of those.

You'll note that, if you read my whole profile, I'm reasonably well educated. You don't need to be (in fact you can be a high school drop out and that's ok with me), but if u lik 2 tlk lik dis then expect to be ignored.