1/1/2013....."No limit sub"..I see that all the time then later they mention their hard limits...That just proves your newbieness or you just don't have an idea.....WE ALL have Limits........Unless you count death as a fetish.  

Failure to plan on your part does not necessitate an emergency on mine!!

10/11/2013  Damnnnnn......... It keeps getting worse.........

As I sit and watch the influx of new 18 to 25 year old Doms and Dommes here...I have to be concerned for them and especially anyone who would contact them. Don't get me wrong I know some very talented young people in the life. See the Whippersnappers group for some EXCELLENT people.

Many of the new ones scare me as they have no idea what to do if something goes wrong, what subspace is, how to recognize it and how to handle it. Do they know what subdrop is and what to do for that? Do they ask if there are medical conditions they should be aware? Is the person diabetic? What do you do for a blood sugar drop that happens as a result of play?

Many admit they are spoiled brats and have manipulated their parents for years to get what they want. I guess they think they can continue this pattern of behavior. Worst thing that happened when Mommy and Daddy said NO was they got their feelings hurt. The worst thing that could happen here............is someone gets HURT and not in a good way.

To the young ones aka TNG.....Take your time to find a mentor. Someone you can learn from, to answer questions, someone to guide you. Remember......even of us in THIS generation started somewhere. We were not born with a flogger in our hands.