I do not and will get involved with more than one DOM at a time.  I have one gentleman that has expressed an interest, and in all fairness, I will give him my full attention.  I have had others ask, and responded to inquiries with this same information, and hope that those asking, would certainly understand if the situation was favorable to you.  He is a man that I wish to get to know better and believe he is more than worthy of my time.

Sitting back for a few days to watch the characters of some DOMS unfold.  I expect that my presumptions are correct.....merely making sure before I kick a few more to the curb.

Just remember, It's not about you......submission is EARNED.  

I do expect a Dom to be a gentleman first, and a Dom and protector, to cherish his submissive above all things.  

If you are interested in meeting me and aren't local, you can either pay for my airline ticket and hotel costs, or come here.

Any DOM should be able to afford taking care of his submissive in every aspect.  If you cannot do that, please move on.

Je veux un homme dominant qui a toujours mon dos, toujours prêt à donner un coup de main, donner un sourire, un toucher doux sur la joue, juste pour me faire savoir qu'il est toujours là pour moi. Je veux un homme que je suis son plus grand trésor et il ne serait jamais prendre pour acquis que.

Don't take her for granted, if you do it too many times, you will lose her.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LjzJXczUnGU

The choices we make are important.  and though a lifestyle may be different, the underlying desire and connection is there.  find someone that commits to you, every day without a reason they could not be there for you.  find someone who WANTS to be there for you.  find someone willing to pick you up and hold you when you are down and not feeling beautiful or loveable at all.  That is the MAN for You.  cherish him and keep him as Your Dom, you will never be sorry....it will be the best thing that ever happened to you.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h31T8D5Cq5k

Always make sure you are with someone that commits with their whole heart.  It is the most important thing in life.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KsH63qJlIMM

I will only try to get to know one DOM, One Man that deserves me, as much as I deserve Him.

I am woman enough, strong enough to ensure that I get the right DOM, the one that can make a complete commitment to me 24/7.  

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvPZo52X5vo

Life is too short, not to get what you want, and what you need.  Don't settle for anything less than what you deserve, and I deserve it all!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ObjLb6ElTvs

All I wanna do......it's your' lucky nite!!

I got the moves, I know the drill, I am the REAL DEAL.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6cfCgLgiFDM

It's all about control, the giving and taking of control.  We all need a SECRET LIFE.  Live your fantasy.  

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1MPw8pPIlOc

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s5T9hvNxyVQ

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tTpJANiITDI

I have come to the conclusion that these sites are filled with men that are married and wannabees, and fakes.  I make the tough choices to stay away from toxic relationships.

Yes, there is something that is very special about me, that sets me apart from other women.  

Woman by Maroon 5

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mpGmhdMW0Is

The man I want, the DOM I need is a man that makes me feel incredible.  He makes me glad to be a woman, to be free to explore, to know there is no shame in surrender.  That being with him is the best thing of my life.

Chaka Khan-Ain't Nobody

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9MF_B-VfHhs&list=AL94UKMTqg-9DF4EXxcnU4kTyYo4VYbXPR

This is my idea of what characteristics compose a TRUE DOM.

 A true DOM cares for his submissive, his woman, and puts her needs first.  He makes the final decision, but has the wisdom to discuss things with her.  He values her opinion.  He seeks her out.  A true DOM takes care of his submissive in every way.  He ensures that she is safe, protected, loved, cherished, and disciplined as needed.  He encourages and nurtures her in her endeavors.  He is proud of her and is not afraid or remiss to tell her.  He is not threatened by her intelligence, her wit, knowledge, physical beauty.  He values everything about her.  A meaningful relationship between the DOM and his submissive brings more to the table, they both feed off each other.  They have a total connection of mind, body, soul, and heart. 

Back in school and very focused.  This is the year for me to get the DOM I want.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GcCNcgoyG_0

He is beginning to realize He is MINE.

XOXOOXOOXO Princess

Bring it on Love!!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rrBx6mAWYPU

There is one DOM that captivates me.

I will wait as long as I have to in order to get the DOM that I want. You can't substitute what you want.....it always falls short.

Thoughts and prayers are with the families of the victims shot at the Connecticut elementary school, in one of the worst mass shootings in history, at an Elementary School, no less.  Comforting hugs to the families and hopes that justice will be served to atone for this massacre.  

Amazing Grace dedicated to the families of the Connecticut victims.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iT88jBAoVIM

Just the Facts:

Hair by:  Tuscany Day Spa & Salon

Clothes by Liz Claiborne & Apt 9

Shoes by Liz Claiborne. Bond Girl

Stockings and Intimates:  Hanes Silkies (Dillard's)

                                    Victoria's Secret

Cosmetics and Makeup:  Rimmel, Elf, Mary Kay, Covergirl, and Estee Lauder

Fragrances:  White Diamonds, True Seduction (Victoria's Secret), Pleasure (Estee Lauder)

I am ALL REAL and ALL WOMAN.  

Okay, obviously someone CAN'T read!!  The claws are out now!!!!  You will be blocked and reported if you continue to bother me. 

How damn hard is it to understand NO!!  NO, NO, NO!!  Never gonna happen!!!

Great fall day to be wearing a pair of stilletto books and kick a BABYDOM (only 30!!) wannabee, hard to the curb!!  That was fun!!  I really have issues with men that have no respect for women that are educated, and particularly those that cannot make up their minds what they want. 

Pick a team!!  Pick a color!!  Is it that damn hard???

Starting to see some stronger DOMs surface, which is refreshing.  Going on two months from getting thrown under the bus by a wannabee DOM.  It takes a lot for someone to prove themselves to me now, and honestly, the damage that was caused by the previous experience makes me extremely overly cautious. 

Trust is a dish best served with great care.  Looking for around eighteen months now, bombarded by fakes, scammers, wannabees, marrieds.  Even DOMs that inadvertently got DOM drop.  Yes, I am a strong, fiery submissive woman.  I take prisoners......you have to know what you're looking for exactly before you realize that I AM MAGICAL.  It's not rocket science, you just have to be educated, professional, and committed to working at a relationship.  The rest all falls into place, if you desire to have a marvelous, wonderful fulfilling relationship, with a woman that spoils her man. Rough life!!

I am developing strong friendships with a select few, of which I am very grateful, while waiting for the right man to prove himself.  Best wishes for all of you who are still seeking that elusive One.

It seems that DOMs pursue, but there is a very fine line between "pursuing" and independence.  They want a submissive to "need" them, but then they aren't available.  Seems to me that doesn't make much sense.  Then they act like something is wrong with a woman because she is independent and fiery, because she has had to look after herself.  It makes no sense that a DOM can pursue you Monday-Friday, but when the weekend rolls around they are unavailable?  Seems kinda off to me.

JFC, Can you say double dumb ass?  Same fool contacts and views me with two different names.  And then tries to completely change his height and physique.  I am wise to you Drmani/ColElliott.  You are running a scam.How stupid to you think people are?  Your pic doesn't even look like a football player!!

i want just one man to hang on to me.  That's all.  A man that is professional, smart, funny, and sensual.  A man that is willing to let me be myself, but also a very loyal and devoted man.  I need a strong DOM that will always stand behind me.  I am open to relocating---I may already know the right one, but I think he's married to his job!!

Don't think you can capture my attention just by saying Hello.  I am very focused these days.  My time is extremely limited and I am going through a health crisis, that few friends remain to stand behind me.  Their silence is not helpful;  it deters and hurts me. 

On the worst of days, I got thrown under the bus by a DOM that I believed was trustworthy and cared for me.  I have isolated myself a great deal, and there are now only a select few that are close friends.  Other than that, I have learned to be careful not to count on someone so that I won't be disappointed.  It's a difficult way to live.....I am strong and count on myself.  I have a few friends that are important and matter to me, but no man has the time and dedication to make a commitment as so many professional man are married to their jobs, and their successes equally tied to it.  I can only surmise that years down the road they will be cold and lonely, wishing they had done things di's too short not to take chances.

In case you wonder, I have just a small circle of close friends who are DOMs.  They are supporting me through a personal health  crisis. 

Yes, I got thrown under the bus, by a DOM that made poor decisions.  At a time when I needed him the most, he was more concerned about saving his own ass.  A total dick move.  Is it forgiveable?  Not likely.  It is forgettable, NEVER.  I will never ever allow myself to be fooled like that again. 

Doing much better lately......had someone lift me up and dust me off. 

FYI-For those of you that send requests and ask, I don't just automatically add someone to my friends circle, you have to be special to me.  This means you know who I am.

It's important to have forgiveness for those we care for because we are all human and make mistakes.   I'm not saying it's an easy task, just that it's something that needs to be done.  You can't throw someone away because they made a mistake, and  if have done that, you are very shallow.

No, I am NOT FLIPPING OKAY!!  Why would you think I'm okay?

Yes, I really was thrown under the bus by a DOM that was trying to save his job and his own ass.  Word of warning:  If you are leading a double life and think that you can fool me into thinking you're single, keep going, because if I find out, I WILL CRUCIFY YOU!!

Saw the writing on the wall weeks before....call it an omen, call it women's intuition.  Just a feeling I had.  Waiting to see if someone can manage to get his life in order.

Chatting with some friends, new and old these days passing the time. 

Another one kicked to the curb....it's a lot of work teaching someone not to lie.  I will catch you when you do, you can be assured of that.  The fury of hell is nothing in comparison to my wrath.  I have no tolerance for bullshit, and game playing.