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ForsakenLove

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If you're stopping to look, take a little more time to read about me. I'm open minded and kind at heart. I look forward to chatting with anyone that takes the time but I'm shy and reserved in person until I get to know you.

I do have more of a Dom personality due to my background but with little lifestyle experience but sometimes you never know what you're gonna like until you try something new. Curiosity and a willingness to take a chance got me into this. At this time I'm looking for friends, maybe more depending on how our conversations go.

5/15/2009 9:57:29 AM
Well, I've been here for awhile and finally found someone. No, she's not a member to any of this but she's no stranger to the lifestyle. Exciting stuff.
10/22/2008 3:15:00 PM
I've been tossing around the idea of changing role. The quiz I took earlier got me thinking. Yeah, I don't have much experience and it's easier for me to take on the Dom role due to my work and background. But on the other hand, would I get more out this by trying the role of Sub? I'm curious to hear more input but I'm still thinking...
10/18/2008 8:35:59 PM

A close friend of mine pointed this website out to me and the results were kinda interesting. There's more on the site for amusement but these are my results as to what BDSM I'm into

You Scored as Masochist

(((Note: This quiz is not totally comprehensive because of the length such a quiz would be. I kept it sex-based because I felt that psychological profiles and motivations were too complicated and vary too greatly among people that practice BDSM.))) Pain just feels good. Nothing like someone hurting you or hurting yourself in some cases. Often sadism goes hand-in-hand with this practice because the two personalities work well together. And some people like both.

Masochist
89%
Experimental
89%
Sadist
86%
Bondage
86%
Switch
79%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur
75%
Submissive
71%
Degradation Lover
61%
Dominant
54%
Vanilla
11%
Take the quiz and other on http://quizfarm.com/quizzes/Sex/poeticthinker/do-you-have-an-inclination-for-bdsm/

9/24/2008 1:43:21 PM
despite my sarcasm with the pictures, i'm met several people that i talk to now that i would probably never have even met if i weren't on this site. who knows where the conversations or the future might bring but it's put a smile on my face.
9/18/2008 9:15:56 PM
...and i've proven my point. i put one picture up and all of sudden i get interest...wow...
9/3/2008 2:30:46 PM
It's amazing to me that there is no interest at all unless you have a picture. I thought with this lifestyle choice people would be more open minded but I guess not.
8/13/2008 9:43:18 AM
This is my first journal entry and I'm not sure what to expect from all this. I've been interested in this stuff for quite a while but never did any of it 'til I met my ex. Anymore I can't get the same satisfaction out of life. I'm no expert when it comes to any of this and I don't have the personal funds to fully get deep into this. I guess I'm just hoping to find someone new to the scene kinda like me that isn't afraid to be brutally honest with me to benefit each other. I know what I like but who's to say what else is out there that I haven't tried or experienced?