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Hetero Female Submissive, 47,  SHENANDOAH , Virginia
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Life. Is. Good.
I am not looking for a relationship at the moment, and I am not here very often these days. When I am online, it's to catch up with my friends over on the Forums. Life is sweeter when shared. Many years ago my journey began with a very long term D/s relationship and it was the most fulfilling personal relationship of my life so far. i will always be grateful to Him for helping me find my way. I have had several shorter, not as serious , and a whole lot of fun, relationships that just confirmed that this is the correct path for me. ~wink~ i am now making a concerted effort to find a Man that makes my blood run hot. And cold. Lol. Nothing short of exceptional will be enough for me to embark on this journey again. I am not under any illusion that I will find him in my backyard. Relocation is always on the table. I do not seek a true Sadist. I have only mild masochistic desires, and a man who needs to truly beat, cane or whip would not be a good match for me. I desire internal enslavement. I want to be so emotionally in tune to his needs, that he is my first thought upon waking, and my last as I drift off to sleep. He will be my Leader, but he will lead me by the hand, not charge ahead without me, leaving me to catch up. I will be the one he desires, needs and wants to protect. I will use all of my real world skills, life experience and intelligence to make his world a better place for both of us. I am not an "insta sub". I will not call you sir or master within the span of a few emails. In my eyes, I am not a slave, and you are no master, until we have found each other. I am the real deal, and a real woman, with the heart of a slave. He will be successful in whatever it is that he does. A man without his life in order will never interest me. Please be over 40 if you choose to send me a message. Trust me. I love this quote...."I am a sub in order to go places within myself and with my partner, that i could not get to without a Dom. To explore these places, i need Him to push me over the edge in the right ways,and to keep me safe while i am out there, flying" i will find Him one day. Or He will find me. The world will look at us and wonder WHAT makes Him look at her that way? Why do they seem like they have something we don't ? What is their secret!? THAT is what i want. If you would like to know more about my thoughts and opinions, I am a fairly regular poster on the message board. Click on read Forum posts.
i am unattached. You need to be as well. If You are married, or in a relationship (I don't care how "bad" it is) please do not message me.?
I have 2 grown children that are in college in another state. I have a wonderful relationship with them both, and will not want any restrictions placed upon my spending time with them. My Man will be my center...but my children will always be satellites, orbiting my life.













 Submissive Female



 5' 3"

 130 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male


 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries



 Musical Theater







 Local BDSM Community

 Hair Pulling




 Body Art



 Soap Making




 1950s Lifestyle




 Fine Dining




 Feng Shui



 Bar Hopping


 Curious About:

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Wax Play


 Clothing Selection

 Hard Limits:



 Certified Massage Therapist

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Journal Entries:
11/30/2014 9:25:56 PM
Where is the Man who can Push me up against the wall, growl in my ear, bite my neck, and make that feel like LOVE Bend me over the chair without warning, take what is His, and make that feel like ROMANCE Grab me by my hair, push me onto the bed, the floor or the table, and make that feel like DESIRE

4/22/2014 10:30:02 PM
I am heartbroken to say that my furry little dependent crossed the Rainbow Bridge. I am unbelievably sad...

3/2/2014 5:08:03 AM
The Invitation by Oriah Mountain Dreamer It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing. It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love for your dream for the adventure of being alive. It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon... I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shrivelled and closed from fear of further pain. I want to know if you can sit with pain mine or your own without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it. I want to know if you can be with joy mine or your own if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful to be realistic to remember the limitations of being human. It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself. If you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. If you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy. I want to know if you can see Beauty even when it is not pretty every day. And if you can source your own life from its presence. I want to know if you can live with failure yours and mine and still stand at the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, Yes. It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair weary and bruised to the bone and do what needs to be done to feed the children. It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the centre of the fire with me and not shrink back. It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.

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