I am a switch. What that means, in the simplest terms, is that I am neither 100% dominant nor 100% submissive. Rather, I have a dominant side, and a submissive side, and at different times I explore different aspects of dominance and submission.

There is "NO ONE TRUE WAY" of enjoying BDSM. Explore all possibilities and enjoy different perspectives. That's my view on bdsm. So, Being a switch doesn't mean that I'm a weak dominant or a disloyal submissive. if you like both chinese and Thai food, it proves you don't REALLY have a taste for foreign cuisine, right?

The idea that if you are "really" dominant you can't also be submissive, or vice-versa, rests on the fallacy that these two things are opposed to one another, rather than two facets of the same thing. In fact, one can easily argue that by exploring both roles, and being familiar with the headspace and psychological experience of both dominance and submission, a person can get a better grasp of the dynamic of power exchange--better, in fact, than the person who is familiar only with one part of it.

I enjoy the feeling of giving up control to someone I trust. But I'm not really into serving, humiliation etc.. Certain types of pain excite me. But I'm not a sadist or a machoist.

You must show me that you care about me enough to hurt me. To me bdsm is all about the giving up control to someone I trust. I am a switch but mostly into submission. Message me to know more.