Collarspace

I am a Dominant. Im, Single, Professional. Several years ago, I realized that there was this thing inside me. I couldnt ignore it anymore. Its quite difficult to explain.I was always attracted to submissives, or women who exhibited submissive behavior. It was an intense turn on just to be in their presence. So I decided that from that point on, I would only date submissive women. Psychologically, emotionally, and even sexually it was so much more gratifying, stimulating, and fulfilling. I could go on all day about the things I seek. Seeking a submissive is not easy... nor a slave, or a relationship. Seemingly, I am intensely attracted to the psychological and emotional. the sexual is but a by product, almost a consequence of that. And of course, there are positive and negative consequences... I have had discussions with others, that have suggested that I am a Pleasure Dom. I understand that fully... It does give me great pleasure to fulfill a subslaves desires, wants, needs. Thereby, completing the circle, creating a synergy between the two personalities. Yes, I do want my submissive to be happy, and satisfied, especially if she is engrossed and committed to her DOMs satisfaction. I want to facilitate that, always. if she needs or enjoys discipline... i want to give her that.If she needs validation, then I want her to have that.and on and on... Sadism...is an extraordinary thing. Early experience with a true masochist enabled me to appreciate the art and the sensation of sadism. once you have dipped your toes into that pool... its hard to stay out of the water. However, this, for me, is strictly a matter of choice. I enjoy what is mutually agreed upon, mutually beneficial. This does not include discipline however. As I do not believe that discipline and sadism are directly connected. I am not one to go on and on philosophically, or bragging or ranting about this and that. Some subs here, have told me that my profile was slim. so i decided to embellish. I tend to engage people in conversation, TALKING about this life, our wants, needs and desires. I ask alot of questions and share alot of myself. Afterall this life is one about communication, trust, openness and honesty. If one can not exhibit those qualities early on, how will one do it later?Z