Collarspace

12/27/2017 2:29:49 PM: We thought It might be wise to add some answers to frequently asked questions :Q: Which one of you is here.A: Actually it could easily be either, but as a general rule it shouldn't matter. Please refrain from asking as it tends to make us think your an idiot.Q: Lovely picturesA: Thanks ever so much, we love taking them. Yes they are ours we enjoy others liking them, no we don't want or need to prove they are ours - we change them quite often, we don't have 80's pictures or ones from the net, we find that stupid.Q: Could We/I/Us meet you.A: Quite possibly, we keep a very open mind, we don't have a set dynamic for meeting others, we enjoy the possibilities, that said, you would need to have the ability to actively add something to our own dynamic - that's not offensive. We would need you to add something to what we already enjoy - Wanting sex - isn't really a new facet for us.Q: So what is your 'Dynamic'.A: Ok good point we were not clear, well we are a D/s couple, we live it comfortably between ourselves, however we don't feel the need to wear the badge of honour at munches and stuff, we do quite fine on our own, and we will choose our play partners in this regard.Q: I have 5-10-20-30 Years experience as a Dom,Master,Super Hero, Ninja Turtle, Can I give you advice. A: Almost certainly not, we view comments like that similar to saying you're eight and three quarters. It shows a complete lack of confidence in who and what you are in the here and now.Q: I have lots of toys, you can play with them, does that move me up the order.A: Sadly no, although we enjoy the multiple pictures of random BDSM implements laid out neatly on a pristine bed, most of ours are wedged down the side or kicked under it, or lost, maybe internally, it is constantly an issue for us. Where are my sock's and where did the butt plug disappear to. More a problem when relatives are due.Q: I am submissive could you train me.A: Our relationship is quite egocentric, and for the most part we would use others in our play as an extension rather then a crutch, if your desire is to play in a no strings way emotionally then it is possible, however if you are using submission as an attempt to find love then it is unlikely we are what you need.Q: What is CnCA: We get asked this worryingly often, it is consensual non consent. Quite a common fetish for many women (and men), it is an interest that we enjoy, that said we would be massively selective in who we involved in such a thing. There are a very few here we would entertain that idea with.Q: Why is this journal entry so long.A: Because you are reading it slowly.