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MistressSaphire

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want to find someone compatible, first and foremost. The key question is - "Can I be friends with you?" Otherwise, the key factor is kinks.


Taking inspiration from a friend, I have decided to list My top kinks:

*Begging (both to continue and to stop!)
*Hair pulling/leading
*Needle Play
*Humiliation
*Torment
*Collars
*Cains and Crops
*Flogging
*Objectification


My current kink list on this site is not up to date. Feel free to message me if you want to talk.

While I have been around for quite a while, I was static for a couple of years. Recently I have started breaking this mold of what I have previously enjoyed and subsequently I want someone willing to attempt these new experiences with Me. This someone could be a pet, or sub to slave type.


Currently I am not looking for a live-in sub or slave. However in the long run, this could become a possibility. What I am able to offer is approximately two full days of My time per month, I would expect that you are able to return this commitment of time. Further I am able to offer My sadism, fun and excessive spontaneity. The more I am interested, the more fun I get from just tormenting someone.


I am willing to assist you in learning to work through your potential cognitive dissonance to submission; moving out of the way so you have the capacity to be able to serve (Domly types tend to be go getters, we have to be able to stand back from that); treat you when you are good, while assisting to moderate errant behaviour. I would love to offer to share time during kink events such as play parties and skill shares.


Finally, I am married. To serve Me, you have to be understanding in that he will not be involved in any kink relationship I may have.


These are My results from the BSDM Quiz Results.

Dominant 100%
Sadist 93%
Experimental 79%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur 50%
Bondage 36%
Switch 29%
Masochist 14%
Vanilla 7%
Degradation Lover 7%

5/19/2013 12:47:22 AM

Small changes to the profile, now to see if there are others still lurking around.

5/3/2012 2:02:03 AM

Excellent, Melb trip BOOKED.

 

Snowboarding, Wine tours, Coffee, and Art Galleries.

4/5/2012 4:26:44 AM

I am planning another trip to melbourne.  From about the 28th june till early mid july.

11/19/2011 12:48:37 AM

Right now, for once, I would like to find someone who will jump when I call.  However I also want someone who is not excessivly demanding when I have no time.

 

I am not sure this person exists, but I am just putting the desire out there.

11/11/2011 4:20:45 PM

http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/8325689/the-meeting

If this is you, don't bother.

10/12/2011 2:17:28 AM

Really frustrated when people dissapear when you are talking to them without any reasoning or justification.

7/13/2011 11:20:45 PM
7/13/2011 11:12:43 PM

Warning - Audio Recording is a Rant!

6/15/2011 2:25:07 AM

*WARNING: Any institution, person, or supernatural entity using this site or any of its associated sites - You may use any of my pictures, information from my profile, or anything I post in any of the forums or groups on this website in any form or forum both current or future, provided that said material is printed on high-quality scented paper... preferably patchouli, sandalwood, or bubblegum. You must also ask me nicely and say "Please, Sir... with sugar on top." If you copy, save, print, or re-post my pictures or information without asking nicely to obtain my prior written consent, I shall be forced to sneak into your homes at night and replace all of your underwear with almost-identical items that are at least two sizes larger or smaller than your normal underwear. And, you don't want to know what I plan to do with your toothbrush.*

Deciding to edit this profile of Mine more than probably necessary is just part of this ongoing process of complete honesty.

I am married to a switch and that is the primary relationship.  *We are looking for a seccondary to join either one of U/us or both in the relationship.  However you have to be willing to communicate with all members of the Family.  Primarily this would be a female, however if an amazing male comes along then they MAY be considered.*  This has actually been changed as I/We now have a submissive.  However I am attempting to balance time with both switch and submissive to manage the household more effectivly.

I am always looking to expand My knowledge of bdsm, in almost every shape and form. There are alot of idea's that I have to share and am willing to talk to submisives about what helps them to get into their subspace.  This doesn't mean that I am looking for a submissive specifically, only that there is something currently available for decent discussion points.

When you first find yourself in my clutches you may think that I am a very femme and almost geeky Mistress.
This is the exact opposite as I find where your tastes lie and if they coincide with mine I will drive you to the abyss.

*My ideal person is someone who is either a submissive or slave, and its more about the right fit of personal dynamics.  This is because My variations in bdsm are vast, and I am willing to limit alot of My more edgy play interests and style to time and trust.* I decided to leave this in just incase someone was still intregued after meandering through this semi definitive profile.

12/24/2010 10:28:03 PM

Ok.  I am not currently looking for a sub now, as I have one firmly within My sights.

 

However We are not against having another family member join us, however I am unwilling to compromise the current harmony within the household.

10/19/2010 4:03:46 PM

Ok,  so I have deleted My profile pictures.  This was due to the number of people who were getting the wrong impresson.  I may eventually share them again, however for now, I might finally be based on what I am offering RATHER than what I look like.

10/12/2010 5:32:04 AM
the below is a recording of a song that I am in the middle of writing - you may like it or not - but its here for those who want to know what I do with My time.
10/12/2010 5:29:16 AM
10/9/2010 4:40:38 AM
If I have nothing in common with a sub, and that sub is in sub-frenzy then I am not interested. Trying to force a conversation when you haven't looked at the basics for a position or BDSM information. This doesn't get you anywhere.
10/8/2010 11:54:44 PM
When asked why a sub was interested in Me, they answered with the below.  I believe this sums up Me in a nutshell.

You are smart, and funny, and warm and successful, driven, sharp as a tack.  You don't take shit from anyone.  Your Honest, and classy and elegant.  But you drink whisky and play WoW.  How could I not like you :D

This Made My day!
10/5/2010 1:05:41 AM
So I decided to talk to a sub who was interesting, however their needs and Mine didn't match up - back to the drawing board again I go for our household.
10/2/2010 10:23:07 PM
I have added My husbands basic details to the account - this allows you to get a rough idea of who you are dealing with as a Poly Household.
10/2/2010 10:16:06 PM
For those who think I possibly cannot be real - look at your own inadequacies first.  Maby then you can stop projecting onto someone who you percieve as a threat!


9/30/2010 1:12:05 PM


** This is My old profile message and I am updating this: If you are interested in Me, then look at the most recent (third) pic.? If this doesn't interest you then your not going to work.**

I'm a Mistress to alot of people who know me. I like alot of old world charm, the respect, and the requirement to honor the knowledge. I believe in training the more traditional way.

I am always looking to expand My knowledge of bdsm, in almost every shape and form. There are alot of idea's that I have to share and am willing to talk to submisives about what helps them to get into their subspace.

When you first find yourself in my clutches you may think that I am a very femme and soft Mistress.
This is the exact opposite as I find where your tastes lie and if they coincide with mine I will drive you to the abyss.

Turn On's- Lace, Leather, Bikes, Chicks, Floggers, Teasing, EPE, Cheeky funny females, Bondage, Spanking, Whipping, Genital torture, Body worship, Tickling games, Sensory deprivation, Knife play, Needle play, Branding, Piercing, Hot wax, Shaving, Biting, Suspension, Hair pulling, Fisting, Foot fucking

I'm always "on"in the lifestyle, you could also refer to me as someone who is?24/7 lifestyle.?I enjoy useing ?a variety of costumes and accessories, I will redecorate whatever room I'm using, If there is no dedicated play area :)?I have an excellent imagination and love to use it on those special things.

Ideal Person:
The slave needs to be subservient and respectful, but not 100% of the time.. they need to know how to judge My moods and react accordingly. I like My subs to have a job, or an out of the house activity that they do, so that there are times when I don't need to watch them, while knowing that they are unable to get away with anything the stricter the better. Even when they are not around me I want them to be thinking about Me.

I am looking for someone who can understand that I am a hard core Mistress,?One big?facination being blood play. So someone who can take alot of pain is another must. My style of bdsm is that a lifestyle. However I am looking for something that is as close to 24/7 as possible. Ideally I would like someone who is able to live in.

A female for Me is a must, and by female I mean someone who is genetically female. I'm sorry to all the Tv's out there, but I experemented and it isn't for Me.

9/23/2010 6:26:46 PM
9/12/2010 11:29:20 PM
I am running a knowledge sharing basis for Chinese Cupping in November.

I am hoping to get a submissive/slave willing to be My model for it at this stage.

Who knows if that is going to happen tho.
9/11/2010 1:43:52 PM
Wonderful night last night- NOT.

1 hours sleep why?
Hoolagans - tearing up gardens riding on rubbish bins destroying cars.
Cops didn't arrive till later.

6.30 am - off to get the milk.
3/22/2010 2:34:02 AM
I'm now in a dedicated relationship with a great partner.  However we have decided to try to find someone more interested in many appetites, mainly more bdsm than service.

Spare room and all... Think W/we will get any takers?
1/22/2008 9:25:19 PM
Its official! I will be in sydney for the mardi gras weekend of fun! I have yet to organise anything other than marching however I would want to catch up with friends while there :)