Zyola

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I am in the Bay Area from Wed. 6/24 until Sat. 6/27 and taking sessions at Fantasymakers. Email me and let's play.... -Zyola

Slender, tall and striking, I am a passionate and skilled Domme who seeks an exceptional and intelligent submissive.

You must be stable, sane, and physically and mentally magnetic. I am
drawn to a beautiful face and eyes, intelligence and confidence, and
honesty. I have many layers and facets, and desire the same in you.
Open communication and integrity, as well as mutual respect and compassion, are of the highest importance to me.

I prefer someone with experience and knowledge about BDSM and D/S,
around the same age, and who has some switching tendencies—although those
are not absolute deal-breakers. You must intrinsically enjoy serving and pleasing within and beyond the scope of play.

In play, I am ardent, expansive and highly intuitive, flowing easily along the spectrum of my boundless imagination depending upon my inclination-- from light and sensual and
teasing, to sadistic and intense and severe.

BDSM and D/S are essential parts of my life. I am a natural Domme- but it is not my
whole life, nor does it define me singularly. I have many interests and goals
outside of this realm, as must you.

You must be drug and drama free, creative, eager and enthusiastic, attentive
and polite, and deliciously responsive. You must be comfortable with your identity as a submissive. You cannot be the jealous or
possessive type.

You must give good backrubs, and have a wicked sense of humor….

If this resonates with you, email me.

Ultimately, with the right person, and time, I am entirely ready to enter into a full-time D/S relationship.

I am completely real and genuine— don’t waste my time if you are not.

-Please don't bother to send me mass emails or cut-and-paste jobs- It's rude and I will not reply.-

-Ms. Zyola

I'm in the Bay Area for the next few days and holding sessions at Fantasymakers.? Call and let's play!
-Zyola

True giving is devoid of fanfare or ego, but done for the sheer pleasure of the act. ?

Electrons behave as a wave until they are observed-? then, they behave as particles.

What do you behave like when you are not being watched?

"Will you take the pain,
I will give to you
Again and again...
Will you return it?"

-To all the SECRET-SUBMISSIVES:

If you are a submissive who has not told a soul- other than me-? then i'm not the girl for you.? It's already difficult enough to manage a d/s relationship without dealing with shame and guilt, and elaborate secrecy.?

Now--? i don't have to take you on a leash to your family's Thanksgiving Dinner.? But i do insist that you be comfortable enough with yourself that you are out to some kink-friendly friends.? Don't have kink-friendly friends?? MAKE SOME.? If your buddies are consistently putting down subs, then maybe you need to make some friends that aren't such idiots.? (Yup- i said it!)? Or if we get on "splendidly" ( ;)~ ), then i can introduce you to some of mine.

Just because we're domme doesn't mean that we don't have feelings or are made of rock!? I for one love it when my sub is proud to be my sub-- not ashamed and fearful of being found out.?

I respect that everyone's decision about coming out is a personal one-? especially those secret-submissive alpha-men out there.?

However, if you are deep in your closet, then you have no place with me.

Thanks much for your patience as I claaaaaw my way through academia....

If you wrote me some time ago (a month or more) and still have an interest, please email me again- my inbox is hopelessly chaotic, and it would make things easier for me.

Some people have expressed an interest in giving me a gift.? It's a lovely gesture- but right now, I could benefit most from the gift that keeps on giving: knowledge.? I would LOVE the gift certificate for such and such store....but what I NEED is a secretary and research assistant.? You up for it?

-Zyola

Folsom Street Fair should en-act a mandatory condom law.?

This year, it was PACKED- by 1 pm, it was one stream of people, squeezing into each other like rapidly coagulating blood.? All the naked men, handling themselves and touching all the displays and rubbing up against you as you try to get by.?? That is absolutely horrific.?

I understand that people want to go naked.? If that's your form of expression, fine.? But there are also those of us who like, at very least, to be on a first-name basis with someone before we get anywhere near their pre-cum.

Put a goddamn cap on it.

My apologies for not returning emails- (i try to respond to all sincere ones) I've been a bit overwhelmed with daily life.? I will try to catch up soon.
-Zyola

So, what i don't get is why would someone go to all the trouble of sending a nasty INTRO email to me, a person they don't even know?? And, they think of themselves as a sub/slave?!? How rude.? Call me overly polite-- and i am proud of it-- but if you don't like someone's profile, then move the fuck ON! ? There is no reason to go to the trouble of being impolite or get into name-calling---? really, i wonder how many actual ADULTS- not meaning minors, but emotionally developed adults use this site.?

Also, for all the subs and slaves out there that think that they have to be monetarily rich to bring something to the table, let me set you straight.? Yes, some Dommes want money to be part of the deal--? and if that's their thing, then fine--- live and let live.? But there are also alot of Dommes, like me, who could care less about your bank account or car or how "flashy" you are--- you don't have to be rich to be worthy as a sub/slave.? Of course, money is always nice, but as a Pro Domme looking for a personal relationship, money is not what i look for in my personal subs.? It's the politeness, obedience, eagerness, and chemistry.?

Actually, if ALL you talk about is how rich you are and how you can pay my rent, etc.-- it is a big turn off.? Tell me what you have inside that will set me on fire.

Also-- why do so many people not have pictures?? Anyone that says looks don't matter is lying---? looks do matter.? It would be so much easier if i could have a mental image of who has emailed me, since physical attraction is part of the deal for me.? And if i don't find you attractive, it doesn't mean that you are NOT ATTRACTIVE, it just means you are not attractive to ME.? Big difference.? Everyone
is attractive to someone.? And my taste is rather eclectic ;)

-Zyola

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