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I was on here on a different profile before, and wasn't happy with the results. I also acquired some stalkers so I decided it was time for a change of pace. I don't want to put my likes/dislikes up because then it classifies me as a certain something, and I'd rather just meet someone first. Chemistry comes before playability if you ask me. (But, if you have a kink, I've more than likely done it and would do it again) So, what am I like? I have a romantic flair, but it's not my driving force. I love giving gifts and buying things, but I don't simply hand money over for nothing. I never use prostitutes or Professional Dominatrices. I would feel decidedly dirty doing so. I prefer monogamy, but I'd be open to swinging if that's your thing. I'm not opposed to including bisexual activities, but I also don't need it. I'm very outgoing; I get along with almost any crowd. I'm a bit of a dork. I like dorky things like Star Wars, or whatnot. I don't go to the extreme and visit conventions or anything of that sort, but I would if that's your thing : ). I enjoy physical activity as well as non-physical activity. ie, bowling, going to movies, golf, basketball, going to the beach, etc. I keep my play-life private, and require that my play-life remains private. But that doesn't mean I'm not looking for a 24/7 either. I'm a good person, attractive, and pretty much normal for the most part. I haven't completely decided if I'm going to put a picture up or not, but if you request one via message I will more than likely be happy to oblige. I'm submissive by nature, but not 100% so. I have been known to be somewhat bratty at times, but also know where to draw the line : ). I make iPhone apps, do /html/css for a job. I have a stable income that supports myself with a little left over to have some fun. I do not make enough to support two people with two bills, but hey you never know, maybe I'll make that million dollar app some day : ). What am I looking for? Ah yes, the most important question. Someone around my age, 25-35. Someone local. No offense, but I'm done doing the long distance thing. Someone with their own place, and their own car. Again, no offense, but I'm not going to be someone's personal ferry to work and back. I don't mind doing the driving under normal circumstances, but I can't handle all the driving for two people : ). Dominant Females only for long term. If someone wants to play a bit, then I don't care what you are (male, female, tg, cd), but if you're looking for a long term relationship, I'm only interested in a Dominant Female. My experience I've been in the lifestyle for 10 years bla bla bla bla... everybody says the same thing. Instead I'll give you some back story. I started young, tying myself up and putting foreign objects into my orifices. Eventually, I stumbled onto a BDSM porn site and went ooo ahh. From that moment on I was hooked. I served a woman in Chicago area for a little while (Long distance #1). I visited her and we did some minor things, but nothing too crazy. After her I served a woman in California for about a year. I visited her twice, and she literally beat the shit out of me lol. We eventually ended things. From there, I took a little break and did some vanilla stuff only to find that vanilla is boring as hell. After my vanilla break I met a gentleman about 2 hours from me. We had a small relationship for about a month. I experienced some new things with him. Mainly, electro-play and chastity. Both of which I enjoyed immensely. Unfortunately though, he was lying to me about his real age, and he was an alcoholic, so I moved on. After him I served my Ma'am that I ended up living with for a year and a half. Things were going well, but she was losing a battle against over-eating and I couldn't handle the stress of the situation. So, we split up. I then tried vanilla again, and got my heart broken. After that situation, I was single for about a year. I then met someone here on collarme, and we began talking. I visited her in Louisiana a couple times. She was pretty amazing, but unfortunately I did not find myself physically attracted to her. Instead of just relying on my feelings, I tried to continue the relationship anyway. I didn't want to be conceited and just give up with her because I didn't find her pretty, and in the long run that was a mistake. After 2 years, I broke up with her and she wasn't very happy about it. I had left some things there and she decided to pawn most of them and tell me to F off for the rest of the stuff. I lost a lot of cute cd outfits too : (, and some awesome ballet boots... but oh well. I don't completely blame her as I didn't exactly break up with her on good timing, but that's just the way things go. You live and learn. I then met someone else here on collarme, and began an online relationship with her. Her webcam was magically broken, and she had no camera... go figure. After about 6 months I grew tired of the excuses and more than likely lies and ended things with her. We broke up in November of 2011. I have been single since then. As far as things I've done, well you'll just have to message me and ask me : ). Summing it up So, I guess that's it really. I know lots of you will just pass over profiles with no pictures. But, if any of you take the time to read this, give me a chance. You will not be disappointed.