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About Ziven
I have explored this lifestyle for close to 17 years, both here online and in reality. I have watched, particularly here online, as the term Dominant has become synonymous with bully.
I do not think the goal of domination is to push someone around. I think the goal of domination is to mentor and uplift another, make them strive to be the best they can be.
In order to accomplish this, I have a set of five core rules that I enforce upon myself.
Be Patient: Finesse and subtlety are major elements of dominance.
Be Open: Be willing to learn from everyone and anyone.
Communicate: Clearly spell out roles, rules, limits and contracts.
Be Honest: Lying or being less than candid can only lead to problems.
Have Fun: What is the point in participating if you cannot enjoy yourself.
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